Consider this blog officially closed. Its been a pain to keep two different blogs (mostly because I'm lazy). So for the last month of my pregnancy, and from here on out, it will be one blog for our one life.
You can find it at ktmk.blogspot.com
Sunday, August 26, 2007
Saturday, August 25, 2007
We're Ready!
The classes have been had, the nursery has been set up, car seats are installed, and we are officially READY to go for baby!
Or rather, as ready as we're ever going to be!
The classes were really helpful - the breastfeeding, infant CPR, and the Great Expectations classes. The CPR and breastfeeding classes were informative, and gave out lots of useful information. The Great Expectations class can't actually teach how to be a parent or anything, but it was more so just to expose us to various issues that may arise during labor and when the baby gets here, so we'll be a little more calm, and less likely to freak out. And Pat proved that he could put on a diaper and shirt and give a sponge bath - on a motionless doll anyway :) He's so cute, and going to be such a great dad!
The last thing we really needed was to get our car seat and stroller set, which arrived via UPS on Wednesday. I put the stroller together myself :) Pat installed the car seat base, in my car anyway, and we practiced taking it in and out, just like we played with the stroller too. We ended up purchasing a travel system from Costco - I'm glad we did! We got a great deal on it, and ended up with a less bulky stroller to boot! The stroller is much more city friendly - it folds quite nice and small for trains and buses and such, and the infant car seat still fits and snaps in nice and snug too. I'm very happy with it.
We didn't have a doll handy to practice using the car seat buckles and such, but we did have a Teddy bear handy........so Ted was our practice victim. Ah Ted. He's seen better days, but he's still my go to man in a pinch.
I had a check up appointment on Friday - and things are still going well. I may have a touch of an Urinary Tract Infection, but I've got antibiotics ready to go if it gets too painful and doesn't clear up on its own. Aside from that, Dr. Kelsey took a Group B Strep swap test (I'll get test results back in a week), and an internal exam to see how I was doing. Baby is down nice and low with its head locked and loaded :) And I'm about 1 cm dilated (not that it means anything at all) and on my way! He also restricted me to working only in the Chicago Metro area, so no more trips to Cheeseland :( But I suppose the less time I spend in the car, the more comfortable I am.
And I also found out that Dr. Kelsey is going to be on vacation from September 7th - 24th. I wasn't really all that heartbroken about it - I've spent lots of time with the other practitioners, and I like all of them - it doesn't matter much to me who catches the baby...that was one of the reasons why I wanted a multi-doctor practice.
We're almost a month out - and getting more and more excited as time chugs along!
Belly A Go GO!
**WARNING TO RENO**SKIN SHOT AHEAD**
Here are a couple of samples from my belly shots 
I must say, I'm pretty happy with how they came out. I'm kicking myself now, because I should have just went commando and taken my undies off (not like I have any modesty at all) - but I figured she would crop them out (but doing so would have cut off some of my precious belly) so undies exposed it is! She did a decent job in one of these shots photoshopping them out, but thankfully I've got copies of the originals so I can work my own magic with them as well (I probably won't post those, since she has her copyright already on these). But you get the idea!
You can see the whole set HERE
Tuesday, August 21, 2007
34 weeks, photo shoot, Where'd it go? & nesting
I've been feeling pretty good lately. I'm trying to take it easy work wise, so I don't over exert myself, and that has been helping a lot. Also, trying to focus on making sure I still get out and walk a bit, which is tough when its like a zillion degrees outside. And yes folks, I am getting bigger. 
You know, I was really good at getting a picture every four weeks, but I botched a bit......I should have aimed for 32 weeks, 36 and then 40 - but now I'm going to have to adjust to 34, 37 & 40. I'll upload my monthly montage after the next photo shoot!
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Speaking of photo shoots, I had one yesterday :) Yeah, I know cheesy, eh? I was debating whether or not to do a professional studio session of me and my big ol' belly - but then I realized that I probably would be much more likely to regret NOT doing it, as opposed to having them and being a cheese ball for having them. I don't have any proofs back or anything yet - but I'll post as soon as I do. I did two different looks - one with jeans and a big white button down shirt of Pat's, and another with a cool piece of lace. I'm excited to see how they turned out! I went to the home studio of the girl who shot our wedding - Victoria Sprung. She's such a sweetie - and so patient working with me! She's used to shooting real fashion models, not just normal people like me!
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Janelle - this shot is for you. I know how much you loooove belly buttons! Earlier this week, Pat noticed that when I lay down my belly button pretty much disappears. Which is A-OK with me :) It feels so strange though - to touch my belly and feel flat skin where my belly button used to be. weird. Also, I discovered a couple other small stretch marks in addition to the rather large one around the area where my belly button ring USED to be. You can kinda sorta see them at the bottom of the photo. Is it strange for me to think they are kind of cute?
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It really hasn't hit me yet - honestly. But it definitely has for Pat!! He's been going nuts - setting up all the gifts from the shower. Its so cute :) Not to mention handy! I haven't had to do much. Pat has done baby laundry, assembled, unpacked and done EVERYTHING!! And I must say, everything is looking pretty darn sweet......
Good job Pat :) I appreciate all your hard work!
You know, I was really good at getting a picture every four weeks, but I botched a bit......I should have aimed for 32 weeks, 36 and then 40 - but now I'm going to have to adjust to 34, 37 & 40. I'll upload my monthly montage after the next photo shoot!:::::::::::::::::::::: PHOTO SHOOT ::::::::::::::::::::::
Speaking of photo shoots, I had one yesterday :) Yeah, I know cheesy, eh? I was debating whether or not to do a professional studio session of me and my big ol' belly - but then I realized that I probably would be much more likely to regret NOT doing it, as opposed to having them and being a cheese ball for having them. I don't have any proofs back or anything yet - but I'll post as soon as I do. I did two different looks - one with jeans and a big white button down shirt of Pat's, and another with a cool piece of lace. I'm excited to see how they turned out! I went to the home studio of the girl who shot our wedding - Victoria Sprung. She's such a sweetie - and so patient working with me! She's used to shooting real fashion models, not just normal people like me!
:::::::::::::::::::::: WHERE'D IT GO?? ::::::::::::::::::::::
Janelle - this shot is for you. I know how much you loooove belly buttons! Earlier this week, Pat noticed that when I lay down my belly button pretty much disappears. Which is A-OK with me :) It feels so strange though - to touch my belly and feel flat skin where my belly button used to be. weird. Also, I discovered a couple other small stretch marks in addition to the rather large one around the area where my belly button ring USED to be. You can kinda sorta see them at the bottom of the photo. Is it strange for me to think they are kind of cute?
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It really hasn't hit me yet - honestly. But it definitely has for Pat!! He's been going nuts - setting up all the gifts from the shower. Its so cute :) Not to mention handy! I haven't had to do much. Pat has done baby laundry, assembled, unpacked and done EVERYTHING!! And I must say, everything is looking pretty darn sweet......
Good job Pat :) I appreciate all your hard work!
Thursday, August 16, 2007
Baby Shower Details!
OK, first of all - there are a slew of people to thank, and it would take a million years to do it here.....Danica - you are my girl! Mom, Dad, Karli, Pat - thank you thank you thank you! and Mrs. DeBoer & Lori - thanks for helping too! OH, and thanks to Janelle for using my camera to take some pics of me opening presents! Without those people, the day would not have been possible!
There was only one teeny tiny snag - our registry! Apparently, there is another Karin O'Brien in NY, who is having a boy, registered at Baby's R Us (but registered as Karin OBrien - no apostrophe). That caused some confusion, as we did get some items for boys. Of course, we don't know yet if we have a boy or girl, but that was just a small hiccup!
The decorations for the party were way too adorable! Green & Yellow were the colors. Danica had beautiful vases with pretty pretty flowers, and these cute (and DELICIOUS) little yellow mint chocolate duckies wrapped in tulle for each guest. Danica's mom (Mrs. DeBoer) had metal baskets which we put the mints/m&m's candy corn snackies in, and Karli & Mom made these awesome decorated Fuse bottles that held the balloons down. Dad whipped out most of the food (Uncle Paul did help a bit). The food and drink (which I didn't include pictures of) was DELISH!!!!
I just don't think it could have been prettier!
The games went off without a hitch, and Pat and I received so many wonderful gifts! And NO doubles! That was the best part, really! No schlepping tons of things back to exchange :) Every single thing we got (even many things not on the registry), we totally needed and won't clutter our house! Here are some photos of those:
Here are a couple people pictures:
Gina & Amy
Danica, me & Lori
Mom, Nikki, Karli, Me, Joni & Janelle
Me & the O'Brien side: Moe, Me, Kristen, Shannon, Patricia & Larkin
From beginning to end, it was about two hours long, which was just about perfect. I was exhausted by the time we were finished cleaning up, though. It was really nice to go to my parent's home and float in the pool.....weightlessness for this preggo body is soooo sooooo fantabulous!
Thanks again, to everyone who helped, and everyone who came! It was great seeing everyone!
There was only one teeny tiny snag - our registry! Apparently, there is another Karin O'Brien in NY, who is having a boy, registered at Baby's R Us (but registered as Karin OBrien - no apostrophe). That caused some confusion, as we did get some items for boys. Of course, we don't know yet if we have a boy or girl, but that was just a small hiccup!
The decorations for the party were way too adorable! Green & Yellow were the colors. Danica had beautiful vases with pretty pretty flowers, and these cute (and DELICIOUS) little yellow mint chocolate duckies wrapped in tulle for each guest. Danica's mom (Mrs. DeBoer) had metal baskets which we put the mints/m&m's candy corn snackies in, and Karli & Mom made these awesome decorated Fuse bottles that held the balloons down. Dad whipped out most of the food (Uncle Paul did help a bit). The food and drink (which I didn't include pictures of) was DELISH!!!!
I just don't think it could have been prettier!
The games went off without a hitch, and Pat and I received so many wonderful gifts! And NO doubles! That was the best part, really! No schlepping tons of things back to exchange :) Every single thing we got (even many things not on the registry), we totally needed and won't clutter our house! Here are some photos of those:
Here are a couple people pictures:
Gina & Amy
Danica, me & Lori
Mom, Nikki, Karli, Me, Joni & Janelle
Me & the O'Brien side: Moe, Me, Kristen, Shannon, Patricia & Larkin
From beginning to end, it was about two hours long, which was just about perfect. I was exhausted by the time we were finished cleaning up, though. It was really nice to go to my parent's home and float in the pool.....weightlessness for this preggo body is soooo sooooo fantabulous!Thanks again, to everyone who helped, and everyone who came! It was great seeing everyone!
OK OK OK
i have such great blogging ideas, but like, negative energy. so what I'm going to do, is post a "place holder" to be updated later, so I don't forget what I want to write about. OK? Ok.
Baby shower - Saturday, August 11 - went smashingly :) Details Posted :)
Baby shopping! - Monday, August 13 - now that we have lots of gifts from the shower, we know what else we need to buy for baby O'Brien's arrival. Holy Shmoly! Can we say EXPENSIVE!!!!
34 weeks - YAY! The docs won't try to prevent labor from this point forward. So, really, baby could come at any day!
Baby class preparation - Breastfeeding class Wednesday, August 15 - yes, Pat did go :) We still have three other classes to take - Great Expectations on the next two Friday nights 5 - 9 pm, and Infant CPR on Sunday.
Phew - I've got a lot to catch up on, don't I!
Baby shower - Saturday, August 11 - went smashingly :) Details Posted :)
Baby shopping! - Monday, August 13 - now that we have lots of gifts from the shower, we know what else we need to buy for baby O'Brien's arrival. Holy Shmoly! Can we say EXPENSIVE!!!!
34 weeks - YAY! The docs won't try to prevent labor from this point forward. So, really, baby could come at any day!
Baby class preparation - Breastfeeding class Wednesday, August 15 - yes, Pat did go :) We still have three other classes to take - Great Expectations on the next two Friday nights 5 - 9 pm, and Infant CPR on Sunday.
Phew - I've got a lot to catch up on, don't I!
Wednesday, August 8, 2007
Baby Shower a Rama!
Pat and I are getting ready for our baby shower this weekend back in Saginaw! I'm excited - Mom, Karli & Danica have worked hard a TON in getting it all put together. My job was basically the invitations and the games. I finished the games up yesterday - here's a few sneak peakies!
And my absolute favorite thing - the name tags! The little diapers are sooooo stinkin' cute - and I love how the borders turned out too. Each set of two name tags has a unique, colorful border!
Its very strange - to think that all of these things are for OUR baby! OURS! Holy cow! Its really starting to set in that we'll have a baby soon.
As far as me and the babe goes, my belly is getting bigger and better, and I'm actually feeling OK as of late. Just a bit tired here and there, and hip joint here, back pain there....etc!
I have another OB appointment tomorrow, then we'll head to the 'Naw! I get to see all my family and friends, which is a HUGE bonus....I'm hoping that I won't melt down like I have every other trip on the way back - with my whole "Woe is Me - My family is so so far away" kind of thing. That is just so emotionally draining.
Until next time - tootle-loo!
And my absolute favorite thing - the name tags! The little diapers are sooooo stinkin' cute - and I love how the borders turned out too. Each set of two name tags has a unique, colorful border!
Its very strange - to think that all of these things are for OUR baby! OURS! Holy cow! Its really starting to set in that we'll have a baby soon.
As far as me and the babe goes, my belly is getting bigger and better, and I'm actually feeling OK as of late. Just a bit tired here and there, and hip joint here, back pain there....etc!
I have another OB appointment tomorrow, then we'll head to the 'Naw! I get to see all my family and friends, which is a HUGE bonus....I'm hoping that I won't melt down like I have every other trip on the way back - with my whole "Woe is Me - My family is so so far away" kind of thing. That is just so emotionally draining.
Until next time - tootle-loo!
Sunday, July 29, 2007
The Roller Coaster
As I was waiting for Pat to meet up with me to enter the BLU gala at Shedd Aquarium, I snapped a cute photo of myself showcasing the ups and downs, hills and valleys that now make up my body.
My belly is so round! LOL!
I spent too much of the night on my feet because there wasn't adequate seating....and today I've had a lot of what I can only explain as cervical pain. No cramping or contractions, and there isn't any other weird issues (i.e. blood, discharge, leakage, etc) accompanying the pain, so I'm trying to not let it freak me out in addition to being painful physically. I may call the doctor tomorrow though, if it continues.......aside from that, I'm feeling OK. As good as I can be, I suppose.
We've got the big things covered - the maternity leave paperwork has been initiated, we have pre-registered for the hospital, and we have a pediatrician. Now, all that is left to do is keep the house clean and wait :)
My belly is so round! LOL!
I spent too much of the night on my feet because there wasn't adequate seating....and today I've had a lot of what I can only explain as cervical pain. No cramping or contractions, and there isn't any other weird issues (i.e. blood, discharge, leakage, etc) accompanying the pain, so I'm trying to not let it freak me out in addition to being painful physically. I may call the doctor tomorrow though, if it continues.......aside from that, I'm feeling OK. As good as I can be, I suppose.
We've got the big things covered - the maternity leave paperwork has been initiated, we have pre-registered for the hospital, and we have a pediatrician. Now, all that is left to do is keep the house clean and wait :)
Sunday, July 22, 2007
Whoa.......
The baby is SERIOUSLY developing some big giant muscles :) I'm being pummeled from the inside out on a regular basis, a few times a day. I suppose that's a good thing, right? The baby will probably start running out of room soon - don't they say the most active weeks are 28 - 32? After 32 weeks it just won't be spacious enough for all the herkies and round house kicks. Most of the movement is up pretty high by my ribs - I'm assuming they are kicks from tootsies which means the baby is facing the right way - I think. And my belly moves a lot too - so it seriously looks like an alien from the outside. I think Pat was a bit freaked out by all that!
Another big thing going on right now is HUGE EMOTIONAL ROLLER COASTERS!!! Once I start crying, I just can't stop. And its not just a tear or two - we're talking ALL out BAWLING!!! It really is horrible.....I think that is probably related more to my OCD issues than pregnancy issues though. I mean, the preggo hormones make me start crying over the smallest thing, and the OCD-ness doesn't let me stop thinking about whatever made me start in the first place, which makes me cry for minutes on end. Like, 20-30 minutes straight. That is VERY draining!! It makes my nose all pluggy and the back of my throat hurt. What was it last week - OH - a baby bird that fell out of a tree.....and last night it was thinking of retiring my teddy bear into a box or something. Sheesh. Really not big deals here folks!
OH, and I still think women who say they loved being pregnant are lying. It just completely makes your body all crazy - and I can't think of any instance in which it would improve your posture or overall well being! It really is tough work.
This weekend was the Craft & Hobby Association trade show - amazing stuff! Any trade show, in general, is exhausting. 7 hours a day of shmoozing, looking at product, taking classes, making demos - for three straight days! But WHEW - it is so much harder walking & standing with this baby inside me! I didn't even go for the whole time because I knew it would be too much, but even 3 - 5 hours was enough to send me into a hip hurtin' frenzy. I'm doing better now - resting and such, but I can definitely feel it!
To Do this week: 31 week appointment on Thursday! We're all the way into going every two weeks now. YIKES!!
Another big thing going on right now is HUGE EMOTIONAL ROLLER COASTERS!!! Once I start crying, I just can't stop. And its not just a tear or two - we're talking ALL out BAWLING!!! It really is horrible.....I think that is probably related more to my OCD issues than pregnancy issues though. I mean, the preggo hormones make me start crying over the smallest thing, and the OCD-ness doesn't let me stop thinking about whatever made me start in the first place, which makes me cry for minutes on end. Like, 20-30 minutes straight. That is VERY draining!! It makes my nose all pluggy and the back of my throat hurt. What was it last week - OH - a baby bird that fell out of a tree.....and last night it was thinking of retiring my teddy bear into a box or something. Sheesh. Really not big deals here folks!
OH, and I still think women who say they loved being pregnant are lying. It just completely makes your body all crazy - and I can't think of any instance in which it would improve your posture or overall well being! It really is tough work.
This weekend was the Craft & Hobby Association trade show - amazing stuff! Any trade show, in general, is exhausting. 7 hours a day of shmoozing, looking at product, taking classes, making demos - for three straight days! But WHEW - it is so much harder walking & standing with this baby inside me! I didn't even go for the whole time because I knew it would be too much, but even 3 - 5 hours was enough to send me into a hip hurtin' frenzy. I'm doing better now - resting and such, but I can definitely feel it!
To Do this week: 31 week appointment on Thursday! We're all the way into going every two weeks now. YIKES!!
Wednesday, July 18, 2007
30 week update :)
Still no additional pictures from the shower - I'm hoping to get them developed today-ish or so. Its been a crazy week - what can I say! Here are a few of the books we recieved for the baby's library! Its steadily growing! I wasn't able to find images of all of the gifts - but man O geez there are some good ones :)
I had a check up last Friday, everything looks healthy, happy and normal. I start going to the doctor every two weeks now......that's kind of crazy, because it means "The Big Show" is getting closer. Eeek! We're totally not ready, and I'm rather freaking out about it. Not sure if this is "nesting" per se, but it certainly makes you think!
The doctor said we needed two things before our next appointment - a pediatrician and to pre-register for the hospital. We pre-registered on our way out, and were given a list of pediatricians the group recommends. Luckily, we found a group of pediatricians relatively close to us that is accepting new patients, so we're going to go with them first. I suppose I could go super thorough and "interview" the doctors and choose one out of the eight in the practice, but who has time for that? We'll meet one or two at the hospital when they do their rounds after the baby is born, and then rotate at the baby's million or so appointments its first few months of life.
I figure if the hospital trusts them enough to give a recommendation, then that's enough for me to trust them.
The other big thing we need to do is start really, seriously, looking into child care options. This is super scary - there are so many options and so many things that can go horribly horribly wrong. This is the part where I wish we were closer to family - there really wasn't ever day care for us when we were younger - it was just Grandma. Not that I would expect my mom & dad could watch the baby, but it would be nice to have that option with people you completely and whole heartedly trust. Anyway, I think we'll look into a couple recommendations of other parents, and then also look into a nanny. I'd love to have a nanny if the price is right - especially if its a Spanish speaking nanny......that would help my own Spanish skills AND that of our baby. We'll see if it fits into the budget. Of course, there is also the option that I would stay home, but that's pretty far down on the list right now. I don't think it would make sense - because I make such a good salary, great benefits, have such incredible flexibility and I really enjoy my job. But I suppose we'll have to wait and see.
I had a check up last Friday, everything looks healthy, happy and normal. I start going to the doctor every two weeks now......that's kind of crazy, because it means "The Big Show" is getting closer. Eeek! We're totally not ready, and I'm rather freaking out about it. Not sure if this is "nesting" per se, but it certainly makes you think!
The doctor said we needed two things before our next appointment - a pediatrician and to pre-register for the hospital. We pre-registered on our way out, and were given a list of pediatricians the group recommends. Luckily, we found a group of pediatricians relatively close to us that is accepting new patients, so we're going to go with them first. I suppose I could go super thorough and "interview" the doctors and choose one out of the eight in the practice, but who has time for that? We'll meet one or two at the hospital when they do their rounds after the baby is born, and then rotate at the baby's million or so appointments its first few months of life.
I figure if the hospital trusts them enough to give a recommendation, then that's enough for me to trust them.
The other big thing we need to do is start really, seriously, looking into child care options. This is super scary - there are so many options and so many things that can go horribly horribly wrong. This is the part where I wish we were closer to family - there really wasn't ever day care for us when we were younger - it was just Grandma. Not that I would expect my mom & dad could watch the baby, but it would be nice to have that option with people you completely and whole heartedly trust. Anyway, I think we'll look into a couple recommendations of other parents, and then also look into a nanny. I'd love to have a nanny if the price is right - especially if its a Spanish speaking nanny......that would help my own Spanish skills AND that of our baby. We'll see if it fits into the budget. Of course, there is also the option that I would stay home, but that's pretty far down on the list right now. I don't think it would make sense - because I make such a good salary, great benefits, have such incredible flexibility and I really enjoy my job. But I suppose we'll have to wait and see.
Sunday, July 8, 2007
Surprise for me!
I was thrown a surprise baby Shower at a local restaurant by my friends here in the building! I was so touched :) They gave us all sorts of wonderful books to begin the baby's library (which I am determined to make extensive! Kelly McFeely (our upstairs neighbor) organized it all - glow necklaces to go around, and a DELICIOUS Dairy Queen cake for dessert!!!
Another friend, Sarah, from across the courtyard, has a hidden talent I was unaware of - Balloon animals! So she made one for everyone in attendance - but it wasn't your run of the mill balloon puppy.....it was knocked up just like me with its own little blob and all :)
I'll post more pics when I get the disposable cameras developed :) But for now, I'll bask in the glow of being loved by my new friends :)
I was thrown a surprise baby Shower at a local restaurant by my friends here in the building! I was so touched :) They gave us all sorts of wonderful books to begin the baby's library (which I am determined to make extensive! Kelly McFeely (our upstairs neighbor) organized it all - glow necklaces to go around, and a DELICIOUS Dairy Queen cake for dessert!!!
Another friend, Sarah, from across the courtyard, has a hidden talent I was unaware of - Balloon animals! So she made one for everyone in attendance - but it wasn't your run of the mill balloon puppy.....it was knocked up just like me with its own little blob and all :)
I'll post more pics when I get the disposable cameras developed :) But for now, I'll bask in the glow of being loved by my new friends :)
Friday, July 6, 2007
Random Updates
Wow. I am at 28 weeks - only 12 left to go! Lots of exciting baby news going on - two of Pat's friends from college & high school both were made proud papa's this week. Both by C-section! All the moms & babies are doing well.
I don't think I ever posted this, but I did get the results of the gestational diabetes test, and it proved to be all good! So there was no need to go back for the gross 3 hour test. I still have been trying to consume more good foods than bad foods, which is often a chore when on the road for over 6 hours in a day. Its just hard for me to snack on water and veggies while driving, you know? Especially when I'm tired and all I want is Coke and fritos. So, on the days where I'm travelling I have made poorer choices than when I'm in the office. I try to make up for it by keeping my water consumption high, and focusing on getting around 30 minutes of exercise 5-6 days of the week, which Pat has been great at supporting. So far, the net effect has been zero-little gain since my last appointment. I was supposed to have another appointment on Monday, but I'll be in Iowa, so its rescheduled for Friday. We'll see what the official numbers show on the scale at the doctor's office.
A few weeks ago, Pat and I went on a maternity ward visit at our hospital. I don't think I wrote about that (although I frequently meant to....its just my preggo brain makes me more scattered than normal - if you can believe it). It was rather funny to be part of a tour group that was 1/3 male, 1/3 female, and 1/3 preggo bellies from the female contingent. I'm not sure why I was so amused, I just was. I guess I had never been a part of a group comprised of that demographic before.
The tour was great (which reminds me - I should pre-register online before I forget) and I didn't really get all freaked out or nervous or anything like I thought I would. The facilities are nice, albiet not quite brand new and fancy shmancy. The brand new women's hospital opens in mid-October, so I'll be one of the last babies born in the old one. The decor is a little dated, but all of thier equipment and philosophies are the latest and greatest, and that's whats important to me. They have been consistantly rated as one of the top 10 women's hospitals in the US, and I've been pleased with their care of me and baby O'Brien so far.
So - highlights. The baby is kept with mama at all times, unless the mother requests the baby be taken to the nursery so she can get some rest. The nurseries are small - one small nursery for each four rooms (they call each four room group a "pod") so even if you decide to put the baby in the nursery, its never far away :) The patient to nurse ratio is 1 to 1 in labor & delivery, 2 to 1 in recovery...so its always like you have a "personal" nurse! The whole place had a very calm atmosphere about it, which I found to be very cool :)
There's much more to it all than that, but that's all I feel like writing about now.....the next steps will be taking our Preparing for Childbirth classes, which will be sometime next month.
I don't think I ever posted this, but I did get the results of the gestational diabetes test, and it proved to be all good! So there was no need to go back for the gross 3 hour test. I still have been trying to consume more good foods than bad foods, which is often a chore when on the road for over 6 hours in a day. Its just hard for me to snack on water and veggies while driving, you know? Especially when I'm tired and all I want is Coke and fritos. So, on the days where I'm travelling I have made poorer choices than when I'm in the office. I try to make up for it by keeping my water consumption high, and focusing on getting around 30 minutes of exercise 5-6 days of the week, which Pat has been great at supporting. So far, the net effect has been zero-little gain since my last appointment. I was supposed to have another appointment on Monday, but I'll be in Iowa, so its rescheduled for Friday. We'll see what the official numbers show on the scale at the doctor's office.
A few weeks ago, Pat and I went on a maternity ward visit at our hospital. I don't think I wrote about that (although I frequently meant to....its just my preggo brain makes me more scattered than normal - if you can believe it). It was rather funny to be part of a tour group that was 1/3 male, 1/3 female, and 1/3 preggo bellies from the female contingent. I'm not sure why I was so amused, I just was. I guess I had never been a part of a group comprised of that demographic before.
The tour was great (which reminds me - I should pre-register online before I forget) and I didn't really get all freaked out or nervous or anything like I thought I would. The facilities are nice, albiet not quite brand new and fancy shmancy. The brand new women's hospital opens in mid-October, so I'll be one of the last babies born in the old one. The decor is a little dated, but all of thier equipment and philosophies are the latest and greatest, and that's whats important to me. They have been consistantly rated as one of the top 10 women's hospitals in the US, and I've been pleased with their care of me and baby O'Brien so far.
So - highlights. The baby is kept with mama at all times, unless the mother requests the baby be taken to the nursery so she can get some rest. The nurseries are small - one small nursery for each four rooms (they call each four room group a "pod") so even if you decide to put the baby in the nursery, its never far away :) The patient to nurse ratio is 1 to 1 in labor & delivery, 2 to 1 in recovery...so its always like you have a "personal" nurse! The whole place had a very calm atmosphere about it, which I found to be very cool :)
There's much more to it all than that, but that's all I feel like writing about now.....the next steps will be taking our Preparing for Childbirth classes, which will be sometime next month.
Wednesday, July 4, 2007
Tuesday, July 3, 2007
Tums
Tums are my new best friend.
I'm chowin' down the recomended dosage daily......presumably because this little blob O'Brien is taking up more and more space, leaving less for my food and forcing it to want to come back up. This usually occurs later in the evening, particularly before I go to bed. Less than pleasant I tell you. Occasionally, I've swapped Tums for Maalox with GasX if whatever I've eaten is making me bloated with oodles and oodles of gas. Those two godsends are definitely making my pregnancy a bit easier to deal with!
I've also been experiencing a bit of nausea again. Oh Great Fun! It is just morning sickness though, and only shows up if I get up in the morning and don't eat something right away. So I've been eating yogurt or triscuits or something of the like right away, then I seem to feel fine.
I'm chowin' down the recomended dosage daily......presumably because this little blob O'Brien is taking up more and more space, leaving less for my food and forcing it to want to come back up. This usually occurs later in the evening, particularly before I go to bed. Less than pleasant I tell you. Occasionally, I've swapped Tums for Maalox with GasX if whatever I've eaten is making me bloated with oodles and oodles of gas. Those two godsends are definitely making my pregnancy a bit easier to deal with!
I've also been experiencing a bit of nausea again. Oh Great Fun! It is just morning sickness though, and only shows up if I get up in the morning and don't eat something right away. So I've been eating yogurt or triscuits or something of the like right away, then I seem to feel fine.
Friday, June 22, 2007
Belly Rubbin'
There are many people who find it highly rude and obnoxious that complete strangers will come up and rub thier belly. I've decided I'm not one of those people. It really doesn't bother me at all. So - be this my announcement to the world - touch my belly peeps. Just do it. Its cool. Oh, and make sure to not buy me a T-shirt that says "Hands Off the Belly".
I was rubbed today by old Asian lady who owns the dry cleaners (with her cute little ol' Jewish husband - they are quite the couple!). By the way, she's certain I'm having a boy.
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I golfed yesterday in an 18 hole scramble. Pat and I went to the driving range on Wednesday night so I could make sure that I could actually hit the ball around my ever growing mid-section. Guess what. I can! Like, really, REALLY well! I had some pretty amazing shots yesterday, and was hitting every club well..........seriously though - it might have been the best I've ever played in my LIFE peoples! Even Pat was impressed! We'll see if pregnancy continues to be good to my game - I have another outing next Thursday. Keep your fingers crossed. If this keeps up though - I might just have to rethink my aversion to being pregnant in the summer time. Maybe its a good thing!
I was rubbed today by old Asian lady who owns the dry cleaners (with her cute little ol' Jewish husband - they are quite the couple!). By the way, she's certain I'm having a boy.
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I golfed yesterday in an 18 hole scramble. Pat and I went to the driving range on Wednesday night so I could make sure that I could actually hit the ball around my ever growing mid-section. Guess what. I can! Like, really, REALLY well! I had some pretty amazing shots yesterday, and was hitting every club well..........seriously though - it might have been the best I've ever played in my LIFE peoples! Even Pat was impressed! We'll see if pregnancy continues to be good to my game - I have another outing next Thursday. Keep your fingers crossed. If this keeps up though - I might just have to rethink my aversion to being pregnant in the summer time. Maybe its a good thing!
Monday, June 18, 2007
EEK! Doom and gloom!
I'll be heading into my 3rd trimester this week......yay! So exciting! It seems unreal that its been that long, you know? Tomorrow, I will have less than 100 days left until baby O'Brien arrives...
I'm nervous, but lately its been more in a good way - I guess more anxious, instead of just being scared...that is definitely a good thing! It probably is because I've been feeling the baby a movin' and a shakin' inside my belly. It just makes it so real! I mean, there is actually a HUMAN inside there making all that movement! It still feels a bit alien, but kinda cool just the same. This weekend, we went camping, and it rained for a wee bit on Saturday afternoon. So we were just hangin' out in the tent playing cards, and baby was being particularly active......so I told Pat it was time to give my belly some attention. To which he took as meaning "I'll just plop my head on her belly and lay here for a while"......silly boy! Anyway - the baby totally knocked him upside his head kung fu style :) It was pretty hilarious because it was the first time Pat really felt the frequency of the baby's kicking/punching. He said "Whoa, that's wierd" or something to that effect......Then I told him the secret I've been hiding all along - that the baby isn't his - its actually Chuck Norris's - that's where the baby gets his mad kung fu skilz that beat me up from the inside on a regular basis :)
OK, back to my title - Gloom and Doom. So I've been feeling really good and secure about the pregnancy.....but it seems as if lately I've been reading tons of really sad, tragic stories from various people about babies and pregnancy. Not really on purpose, mind you - I mean, one person from the message board I visit at Pregnancy.org just recently delivered at around 28 weeks...but the baby is still fighting the good fight right now. But in random places, like at scrapbooking message boards, I've been hearing all this horrible news! Like the woman who's friend just died in childbirth (yes, it was in a hospital and no, it wasn't in the boone docks) leaving her husband with a 2 year old and a healthy newborn boy. And another story I just read today about a woman who's sister in law just had her Baby Shower on Saturday, (she was due in one month) and learned on Sunday (Father's Day) that the baby was dead, in her womb, and she'd still have to deliver the baby as normal this week.
Now, sometimes, I am an optimist - I choose to not see some of the bad that is going on in the world......but at times I'm would consider myself a realist as well. I know that these things happen, that life isn't always hunky dory and yes, horrible things do happen to good people. But it still breaks my heart. And while its not sending me into a tailspin frenzy that something horrible is going to happen to me - it definitely brings you down a bit, you know? Anyway, trying not to focus on all that bad stuff, but its hard when its all up in your face......
OK - subject change - I still don't have the results of my gestational diabetes screen.....but I'll be calling again today. I'll keep you posted!
I'm nervous, but lately its been more in a good way - I guess more anxious, instead of just being scared...that is definitely a good thing! It probably is because I've been feeling the baby a movin' and a shakin' inside my belly. It just makes it so real! I mean, there is actually a HUMAN inside there making all that movement! It still feels a bit alien, but kinda cool just the same. This weekend, we went camping, and it rained for a wee bit on Saturday afternoon. So we were just hangin' out in the tent playing cards, and baby was being particularly active......so I told Pat it was time to give my belly some attention. To which he took as meaning "I'll just plop my head on her belly and lay here for a while"......silly boy! Anyway - the baby totally knocked him upside his head kung fu style :) It was pretty hilarious because it was the first time Pat really felt the frequency of the baby's kicking/punching. He said "Whoa, that's wierd" or something to that effect......Then I told him the secret I've been hiding all along - that the baby isn't his - its actually Chuck Norris's - that's where the baby gets his mad kung fu skilz that beat me up from the inside on a regular basis :)
OK, back to my title - Gloom and Doom. So I've been feeling really good and secure about the pregnancy.....but it seems as if lately I've been reading tons of really sad, tragic stories from various people about babies and pregnancy. Not really on purpose, mind you - I mean, one person from the message board I visit at Pregnancy.org just recently delivered at around 28 weeks...but the baby is still fighting the good fight right now. But in random places, like at scrapbooking message boards, I've been hearing all this horrible news! Like the woman who's friend just died in childbirth (yes, it was in a hospital and no, it wasn't in the boone docks) leaving her husband with a 2 year old and a healthy newborn boy. And another story I just read today about a woman who's sister in law just had her Baby Shower on Saturday, (she was due in one month) and learned on Sunday (Father's Day) that the baby was dead, in her womb, and she'd still have to deliver the baby as normal this week.
Now, sometimes, I am an optimist - I choose to not see some of the bad that is going on in the world......but at times I'm would consider myself a realist as well. I know that these things happen, that life isn't always hunky dory and yes, horrible things do happen to good people. But it still breaks my heart. And while its not sending me into a tailspin frenzy that something horrible is going to happen to me - it definitely brings you down a bit, you know? Anyway, trying not to focus on all that bad stuff, but its hard when its all up in your face......
OK - subject change - I still don't have the results of my gestational diabetes screen.....but I'll be calling again today. I'll keep you posted!
Wednesday, June 13, 2007
OK, so a word about this week
This past week has been pretty tough for me emotionally. I mean, I've just been tired, mean, irritable, and in general not a happy preggo pants. I guess if I had to pin point a culprit, I would say weight is weighing me down.
This weekend - we went to Michigan and I had a fantastic time...but it was the first time a lot of my family has seen me pregnant. And everyone I saw, the first thing out of their mouth was "awww....there's my chubby girl" or something to that equivalent. I know it was meant to be endearing, but to hear it over and over and over again, got to be kind of tough. I don't think I know of anyone, including the most secure person in the world, that could hear that phrase that many times, and still feel good about themselves, know what I mean? Oh, did I mention I was in a bathing suite most of the day on Saturday? yeah, catching a glimpse in the mirror of that was a bit traumatic. Lets just say the body can change a lot in a month! In addition to my already fragile self image, I had to toil with that fresh in my mind most of the drive home.
Then, in talking with my doctor on Monday, we discussed my weight...and although he wasn't that concerned (I've gained about 15-20 pounds so far), when I asked about it he said he would be wouldn't mind if I didn't gain much between now and my next appointment. Yup - that would mean I'm chubby. I know I've been eating way too much crap and all, I guess I just needed to hear the doc say it so I could get back on track. So, I've banned Starbucks and Culvers & peanut butter twix from my diet for at least the next two weeks (a big feat - considering I was indulging daily) and just in general try to improve my nutrition. I was really doing well in the beginning of my pregnancy, and somehow just lost track of it all.
I know that people say now isn't the time to diet, and I'm not going to be restricting my caloric intake......but I should be putting more of an emphasis on my nutrition and health - and not eating crap. And I don't know a single pregnant woman who really has said "I'm not going to pay attention to my weight" - its always an issue. And the more closely I take care of the issue now, the less I'll have to deal with it after baby is born.
The other issue I had to deal with was Sunday evening's meltdown.....a direct result of visiting my friends and family. It was the same issue as before - me lamenting the fact that I am far removed from my support system, and how on earth are we going to raise a baby without that system close by. I cried for a bit, but felt better later in the evening after realizing that I indeed, will do a good job, with or without my family and friends right next door.
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So back to my OB appointment - I also got to take my glucose test. It wasn't as bad drinking that orange goo as everyone made it out to be, but I felt really weird for the rest of the day. Like I was high, then crashing from sugar. Very strange. I don't know the results of the test yet - but in my eyes no news is good news.
I also got some blood pressure checked (118/75 - kind of high for me, but I had just chugged the sugary goodness and was doing my darndest to not chuck it back up - normally I'm somehwere below 110/70), got my cervix checked out (everything is A-OK), and uterus measured (super normal there too). So far, everything is really looking good! And now I know my blood type is B+ (Pat's A+) - so there is officially no Rh negative risk (although if there was, they totally would have told me by now!).
The other big thing that we discussed was that the rest of my visits will be alternated between Dr. Kelsey and the other group OB's, just so I can meet them all once. Cuz who knows if Dr. Kelsey will officially be available when Baby O'Brien makes his/her grand entrance. I also got to finally change my name to O'Brien...it took a while for work and insurance to make the changes :)
This weekend - we went to Michigan and I had a fantastic time...but it was the first time a lot of my family has seen me pregnant. And everyone I saw, the first thing out of their mouth was "awww....there's my chubby girl" or something to that equivalent. I know it was meant to be endearing, but to hear it over and over and over again, got to be kind of tough. I don't think I know of anyone, including the most secure person in the world, that could hear that phrase that many times, and still feel good about themselves, know what I mean? Oh, did I mention I was in a bathing suite most of the day on Saturday? yeah, catching a glimpse in the mirror of that was a bit traumatic. Lets just say the body can change a lot in a month! In addition to my already fragile self image, I had to toil with that fresh in my mind most of the drive home.
Then, in talking with my doctor on Monday, we discussed my weight...and although he wasn't that concerned (I've gained about 15-20 pounds so far), when I asked about it he said he would be wouldn't mind if I didn't gain much between now and my next appointment. Yup - that would mean I'm chubby. I know I've been eating way too much crap and all, I guess I just needed to hear the doc say it so I could get back on track. So, I've banned Starbucks and Culvers & peanut butter twix from my diet for at least the next two weeks (a big feat - considering I was indulging daily) and just in general try to improve my nutrition. I was really doing well in the beginning of my pregnancy, and somehow just lost track of it all.
I know that people say now isn't the time to diet, and I'm not going to be restricting my caloric intake......but I should be putting more of an emphasis on my nutrition and health - and not eating crap. And I don't know a single pregnant woman who really has said "I'm not going to pay attention to my weight" - its always an issue. And the more closely I take care of the issue now, the less I'll have to deal with it after baby is born.
The other issue I had to deal with was Sunday evening's meltdown.....a direct result of visiting my friends and family. It was the same issue as before - me lamenting the fact that I am far removed from my support system, and how on earth are we going to raise a baby without that system close by. I cried for a bit, but felt better later in the evening after realizing that I indeed, will do a good job, with or without my family and friends right next door.
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So back to my OB appointment - I also got to take my glucose test. It wasn't as bad drinking that orange goo as everyone made it out to be, but I felt really weird for the rest of the day. Like I was high, then crashing from sugar. Very strange. I don't know the results of the test yet - but in my eyes no news is good news.
I also got some blood pressure checked (118/75 - kind of high for me, but I had just chugged the sugary goodness and was doing my darndest to not chuck it back up - normally I'm somehwere below 110/70), got my cervix checked out (everything is A-OK), and uterus measured (super normal there too). So far, everything is really looking good! And now I know my blood type is B+ (Pat's A+) - so there is officially no Rh negative risk (although if there was, they totally would have told me by now!).
The other big thing that we discussed was that the rest of my visits will be alternated between Dr. Kelsey and the other group OB's, just so I can meet them all once. Cuz who knows if Dr. Kelsey will officially be available when Baby O'Brien makes his/her grand entrance. I also got to finally change my name to O'Brien...it took a while for work and insurance to make the changes :)
Pictures :)
Soooo.....here's the crib and changing table :) Isn't it soooo pretty! We're so lucky to have been able to borrow it from the O'Donnell family. Its just perfect! And, I love that there are drawers underneath both the crib & the changing table. We also bought some baskets to put under the changing table today too - they look pretty nice! All I have to do is wipe them down and clean them a bit - and it will be all ready for Baby's arrival!!!
25 weeks.....
and counting!
I've got nursery pictures....or rather guest room/office/nursery pictures - I'll post later. we picked up the crib and changing table from Moe's this weekend. It fits perfectly - and looks fantastic! I can't wait to get all the crap that goes in it :) Including the baby!
I've got nursery pictures....or rather guest room/office/nursery pictures - I'll post later. we picked up the crib and changing table from Moe's this weekend. It fits perfectly - and looks fantastic! I can't wait to get all the crap that goes in it :) Including the baby!
Wednesday, June 6, 2007
Finally - Pictures :)
Now, I'm not really all that keen on parading around God's Green Earth all nekked and such, but just for the sake of documentation here are photos of the progression of my pregnancy. I started out in Mexico, thinking it would be easiest just to do it au-natural. But I think its been OK with the tank and cool pants....and probably more PG-13 that way anyway. Keep in mind I was overweight to begin with, so its not the cute, itty bitty bump you would expect, but its me - and I love me for it!
Almost 2/3 of the way!
Today marks 24 weeks. I'm going to take some belly pics tonight, and probably post the full progression as well....
Monday I have my 24 week appointment - glucose test and the like! Apparently the flat orange pop they make you drink isn't as horrible as you'd think. It shouldn't be too bad. Depending on the results they determine if you're at risk for gestational diabetes or not. I'm not all that worried about it - although I've been eating some serious sugarliciousness as of late, more or less I've been eating well.
The belly button still hasn't popped out yet, but my uterus is definitely above it now - by a couple of inches. I feel baby kicks up there ALL the time (i.e. right now!). I think I don't have any poppage yet because I was chubby to begin with, so there's probably a nice big layer of fat between the uterus and the skin.....maybe I won't pop at all! Which wouldn't be too bad - some of the outie pictures I've seen kind of scare me!
I'm getting the baby's room ready, slowly but surely! We get to pick up the crib and changing table this weekend, so I've been trying to clean out as much unnecessary clutter as possible. Its a chore man! I've finally got our filing system figured out though, so that will help immensely with getting the clutter under control! I'll make another donation run to the Salvation Army too - we've given TONS away already this year! I'm very proud of us!
I also think we've narrowed down a shower date - which helps put my mind at ease too. It will probably be August 5 or 11. Hopefully we can sort it out for good this weekend. These past 24 weeks have just flown by - and to think our little babe will be here in just three short months is crazy! There is still so much to do!
Monday I have my 24 week appointment - glucose test and the like! Apparently the flat orange pop they make you drink isn't as horrible as you'd think. It shouldn't be too bad. Depending on the results they determine if you're at risk for gestational diabetes or not. I'm not all that worried about it - although I've been eating some serious sugarliciousness as of late, more or less I've been eating well.
The belly button still hasn't popped out yet, but my uterus is definitely above it now - by a couple of inches. I feel baby kicks up there ALL the time (i.e. right now!). I think I don't have any poppage yet because I was chubby to begin with, so there's probably a nice big layer of fat between the uterus and the skin.....maybe I won't pop at all! Which wouldn't be too bad - some of the outie pictures I've seen kind of scare me!
I'm getting the baby's room ready, slowly but surely! We get to pick up the crib and changing table this weekend, so I've been trying to clean out as much unnecessary clutter as possible. Its a chore man! I've finally got our filing system figured out though, so that will help immensely with getting the clutter under control! I'll make another donation run to the Salvation Army too - we've given TONS away already this year! I'm very proud of us!
I also think we've narrowed down a shower date - which helps put my mind at ease too. It will probably be August 5 or 11. Hopefully we can sort it out for good this weekend. These past 24 weeks have just flown by - and to think our little babe will be here in just three short months is crazy! There is still so much to do!
Loving Pregnancy?
Pat asked me last night if I was enjoying my pregnancy.
It was a good and fair question - but it took me a while to answer, because I wasn't exactly sure of how I felt.
I'm appreciative that the pregnancy has gone as well as it has - and I think I've been rather fortunate that it hasn't interfered too much with my daily life, and hasn't kept me from doing things I would normally do. I am appreciative and have a good attitude toward my changing body...mostly because giant boobs are cool, and my belly is getting rather cute and round.
I guess I thought I'd feel differently. That I'd LOOVE it. I've always thought that pregnancy is exactly what my body was made for - my wide hips, strong legs, and ample breasts....and I'm sure it is - but I had visions in my head. I couldn't WAIT to get maternity clothes because I just *knew* how adorable I'd be......
But am I loving it? Ummm......I'm not sure. I don't think I would say I'm loving it. Loving is a strong statment. Mostly because its pretty uncomfortable at times. I mean, a person is growing inside you for Pete's Sake - its taking up space and moving things around and squirming and squishing and making your body all strange and weird. Not just the weight gain thing, although it is a major drawback - I'm taking more about how your hips widen and your back is all out of wack and when you wake up or try to move around its rather difficult. Its very strange.
Some women (I'm sure they are all liars now) really loved being pregnant. Maybe those are the people with 12 kids - where pregnancy is their preferred stage of existence. Those people are misleading - they're the ones who don't tell you about the constipation, hemorrhoids, constant farting and burping, joint pain, nerve pain, not being able to tie your own shoes pain......
I'm just hoping its not all a scam. You know, like a scam to keep the human race alive. Everyone says how amazing it is to be a parent, how its the most incredible (ok - some honest ones include most difficult as well) thing they have ever done.....but what if they are scammers just like those perfectly happy glowing "loving pregnancy" women are? I suppose its a bit too late to be thinking of that now - but the thought did just pop up in my head.....
Maybe holding that little baby outside your body for the first time makes the memory of the labor and previous 40 weeks melt away......because if not - than I'm going to spread the word of truth, and human kind will be doomed :)
It was a good and fair question - but it took me a while to answer, because I wasn't exactly sure of how I felt.
I'm appreciative that the pregnancy has gone as well as it has - and I think I've been rather fortunate that it hasn't interfered too much with my daily life, and hasn't kept me from doing things I would normally do. I am appreciative and have a good attitude toward my changing body...mostly because giant boobs are cool, and my belly is getting rather cute and round.
I guess I thought I'd feel differently. That I'd LOOVE it. I've always thought that pregnancy is exactly what my body was made for - my wide hips, strong legs, and ample breasts....and I'm sure it is - but I had visions in my head. I couldn't WAIT to get maternity clothes because I just *knew* how adorable I'd be......
But am I loving it? Ummm......I'm not sure. I don't think I would say I'm loving it. Loving is a strong statment. Mostly because its pretty uncomfortable at times. I mean, a person is growing inside you for Pete's Sake - its taking up space and moving things around and squirming and squishing and making your body all strange and weird. Not just the weight gain thing, although it is a major drawback - I'm taking more about how your hips widen and your back is all out of wack and when you wake up or try to move around its rather difficult. Its very strange.
Some women (I'm sure they are all liars now) really loved being pregnant. Maybe those are the people with 12 kids - where pregnancy is their preferred stage of existence. Those people are misleading - they're the ones who don't tell you about the constipation, hemorrhoids, constant farting and burping, joint pain, nerve pain, not being able to tie your own shoes pain......
I'm just hoping its not all a scam. You know, like a scam to keep the human race alive. Everyone says how amazing it is to be a parent, how its the most incredible (ok - some honest ones include most difficult as well) thing they have ever done.....but what if they are scammers just like those perfectly happy glowing "loving pregnancy" women are? I suppose its a bit too late to be thinking of that now - but the thought did just pop up in my head.....
Maybe holding that little baby outside your body for the first time makes the memory of the labor and previous 40 weeks melt away......because if not - than I'm going to spread the word of truth, and human kind will be doomed :)
Tuesday, May 29, 2007
Slight Meltdown - just slight......
Just wanted to send out some mad props to Pat for putting up with me last night.....seriously dude, you are some kind of Saint.
I keep reading in my "What to Expect When You're Expecting" book that the mood swings / emotions are supposed to be evening out, but it appears to me as if they are getting worse. Its just not something I deal with very well. I'm trying to improve, not keep stuff bottled up inside, but sometimes I just explode, and Pat bears the brunt of it. He's the only one here! I would really rather not do that, but I guess sometimes you don't have a choice.
Before I get to what the meltdown was about last night, I must mention this - baby is inside me moving around like a Kung Fu fighter! Mostly he is active in the evenings, just before I go to bed. I've been trying to encourage Pat to "concentrate" and put his hand on my belly and just wait, with the hopes of maybe feeling something, but up until now the kung fu action hasn't been strong enough to feel on the outside. Even our Doc said it might be another month or two.....
Until last night! I think that was the first time he kind of thought he may have felt something :) It was pretty exciting! It still isn't very strong movement, but its strong enough where I can actually see my belly move a bit from the outside, so I figured he'd be able to feel something.
Anyway, back to my meltdown. (side note: why do meltdowns always occur in the middle of the night? Why can't I meltdown, somewhere around, oh, say, the afternoon time? Its like 11:00PM and my body just decides - yes, lets have a crying fest right now, right when you should be sleeping. ugh. Frustrating I tell you!) I occasionally have felt this pang of loneliness while going through this whole pregnancy process. Yes, I realize that Pat is here with me, and trust me, he is a more than incredible mate, and I'm so very fortunate to have one of the good ones......but I think many women, myself included, really would like to bond and share this incredible time of change and craziness with other women important in their lives. Moms, sisters, best friends, cousins - whatever.
Those women in my life are all relatively far away.
Yes, closer to me now than when I was in Mexico - but still far away where I don't get to do silly things like preggo clothes shopping or evening ice cream runs with them or even *gasp* have them make a fuss over me (how horribly selfish of me, no? hey man, I'm just being honest here). I communicate through email, phone calls, etc, but its just not enough to really share the experience with them. Although I am beginning to make friends here, that is still not the same, either. Then, those thoughts brought up the realization that Pat and I are going to be raising this child alone. That's pretty much when I lost it. Having grown up with all my family close at hand was really a fantastic thing - there was always someone around to help, to teach, to show you the way. And not to say that I'm afraid we won't be able to do it, because we will - and I know we will be great parents - its just that comfort of knowing that your mom or aunt could swing by at a moments notice is no longer there. And that is sometimes a scary, overwhelming feeling!
But - today is a new day. Bright, happy and wonderful. I'm wearing my new maternity bras I purchased last Friday (Pat even went shopping with me - poor guy! He's SUCH a trooper!) and my boobs are looking (and feeling) fabulous and supported (albeit GIANT), and of course, my belly is rounding out and really starting to look pregnant instead of chubby! That, my friends, is very exciting!
I keep reading in my "What to Expect When You're Expecting" book that the mood swings / emotions are supposed to be evening out, but it appears to me as if they are getting worse. Its just not something I deal with very well. I'm trying to improve, not keep stuff bottled up inside, but sometimes I just explode, and Pat bears the brunt of it. He's the only one here! I would really rather not do that, but I guess sometimes you don't have a choice.
Before I get to what the meltdown was about last night, I must mention this - baby is inside me moving around like a Kung Fu fighter! Mostly he is active in the evenings, just before I go to bed. I've been trying to encourage Pat to "concentrate" and put his hand on my belly and just wait, with the hopes of maybe feeling something, but up until now the kung fu action hasn't been strong enough to feel on the outside. Even our Doc said it might be another month or two.....
Until last night! I think that was the first time he kind of thought he may have felt something :) It was pretty exciting! It still isn't very strong movement, but its strong enough where I can actually see my belly move a bit from the outside, so I figured he'd be able to feel something.
Anyway, back to my meltdown. (side note: why do meltdowns always occur in the middle of the night? Why can't I meltdown, somewhere around, oh, say, the afternoon time? Its like 11:00PM and my body just decides - yes, lets have a crying fest right now, right when you should be sleeping. ugh. Frustrating I tell you!) I occasionally have felt this pang of loneliness while going through this whole pregnancy process. Yes, I realize that Pat is here with me, and trust me, he is a more than incredible mate, and I'm so very fortunate to have one of the good ones......but I think many women, myself included, really would like to bond and share this incredible time of change and craziness with other women important in their lives. Moms, sisters, best friends, cousins - whatever.
Those women in my life are all relatively far away.
Yes, closer to me now than when I was in Mexico - but still far away where I don't get to do silly things like preggo clothes shopping or evening ice cream runs with them or even *gasp* have them make a fuss over me (how horribly selfish of me, no? hey man, I'm just being honest here). I communicate through email, phone calls, etc, but its just not enough to really share the experience with them. Although I am beginning to make friends here, that is still not the same, either. Then, those thoughts brought up the realization that Pat and I are going to be raising this child alone. That's pretty much when I lost it. Having grown up with all my family close at hand was really a fantastic thing - there was always someone around to help, to teach, to show you the way. And not to say that I'm afraid we won't be able to do it, because we will - and I know we will be great parents - its just that comfort of knowing that your mom or aunt could swing by at a moments notice is no longer there. And that is sometimes a scary, overwhelming feeling!
But - today is a new day. Bright, happy and wonderful. I'm wearing my new maternity bras I purchased last Friday (Pat even went shopping with me - poor guy! He's SUCH a trooper!) and my boobs are looking (and feeling) fabulous and supported (albeit GIANT), and of course, my belly is rounding out and really starting to look pregnant instead of chubby! That, my friends, is very exciting!
Tuesday, May 22, 2007
Holy hips batman!
I've mentioned before this pregnancy has been relatively uneventful - especially as far as aches and pains go. I've had some here and there, but nothing that I would call chronic or severe. The sciatic nerve has been the worst, and thats been intermittent at best.
Last weekend was my first taste of "OH MY GOD I FEEL LIKE I'M BEING TORN TO PIECES" kind of pain. I know I know, I shouldn't complain now - because if I bitch about little stuff now, how the heck am I ever going to handle labor.....but just hear me out.
Let me preface this by saying I probably self inflicted the majority of the pain. I took a long walk home from Wrigley Field on Friday (2.5 miles?) and rode the bike 7 miles on Saturday - then trapsed around in high heels for a while on Saturday night......so I'm sure those things didn't help.
Anyway, since I've been having to sleep on my side, I wake up feeling like I was hit by a truck in the middle of the night. Just all sorts of achy, especially in my hips and shoulders. This weekend though, even the pillow in between my legs didn't help at all. I'm assuming it was just all part of the natural, hip widening process (yes, apparently my hips were not wide enough already)....but, sweet LORD it was painful. It was like someone strapped each side of me up to a medieval torture device, and was just cranking up the machine to pull me a part at the hips. ugh!
One morning I woke up at around 4:30AM and couldn't go back to sleep. Nothing helped - I downed Tylenol like it was going out of style, went into the living room and layed in the recliner and elevated my legs....nothing seemed to help. I finally ended up taking a nap in the bathtub.......I found out (now here's a nice visual) if I flipped over belly down and propped myself up on my elbows and balanced with my feet and knees, I could "float" in the bathtub....and that finally gave me enough relief to sleep for a while longer and make the pain go away. I pretty much stayed at home off my feet on Sunday, and by Monday the pain was tolerable. It seems to be fine now.
The other great thing is that we bought a new mattress, and it is like sleeping on heaven. I felt so rested this morning, and didn't spend half the night flippin' and floppin' around! I hope it keeps me feeling that way! I also had a 60 minute massage today too - so I should sleep very well tonight. And I'll have to remember to not overdo the exercise, so I can avoid that kind of pain again!!!
Last weekend was my first taste of "OH MY GOD I FEEL LIKE I'M BEING TORN TO PIECES" kind of pain. I know I know, I shouldn't complain now - because if I bitch about little stuff now, how the heck am I ever going to handle labor.....but just hear me out.
Let me preface this by saying I probably self inflicted the majority of the pain. I took a long walk home from Wrigley Field on Friday (2.5 miles?) and rode the bike 7 miles on Saturday - then trapsed around in high heels for a while on Saturday night......so I'm sure those things didn't help.
Anyway, since I've been having to sleep on my side, I wake up feeling like I was hit by a truck in the middle of the night. Just all sorts of achy, especially in my hips and shoulders. This weekend though, even the pillow in between my legs didn't help at all. I'm assuming it was just all part of the natural, hip widening process (yes, apparently my hips were not wide enough already)....but, sweet LORD it was painful. It was like someone strapped each side of me up to a medieval torture device, and was just cranking up the machine to pull me a part at the hips. ugh!
One morning I woke up at around 4:30AM and couldn't go back to sleep. Nothing helped - I downed Tylenol like it was going out of style, went into the living room and layed in the recliner and elevated my legs....nothing seemed to help. I finally ended up taking a nap in the bathtub.......I found out (now here's a nice visual) if I flipped over belly down and propped myself up on my elbows and balanced with my feet and knees, I could "float" in the bathtub....and that finally gave me enough relief to sleep for a while longer and make the pain go away. I pretty much stayed at home off my feet on Sunday, and by Monday the pain was tolerable. It seems to be fine now.
The other great thing is that we bought a new mattress, and it is like sleeping on heaven. I felt so rested this morning, and didn't spend half the night flippin' and floppin' around! I hope it keeps me feeling that way! I also had a 60 minute massage today too - so I should sleep very well tonight. And I'll have to remember to not overdo the exercise, so I can avoid that kind of pain again!!!
Monday, May 14, 2007
Half way there!
Had the 20 week check up and ultrasound today - we're halfway to the finish line! It was an ETERNA-APPOINTMENT.....just seemed to last forever! Luckily, Pat was there with me so it wasn't too bad. The ultrasound wasn't too bad either...lots of icky goo and rearranging myself to try to get the baby to move around the right way...but the little bugger didn't want to cooperate! Finally after probably about an hour or so, the tech got the final shot of the spine she was looking for, and everything looks A-OK! Baby O'Brien was all scrunched up anyway, so even if we did want to determine the sex, I don't think we would have been able to.
The visit with Dr. Kelsey went Okie doke too......just talk about sciatic nerve issues, sex, and allergy management. On our trip to Tucson I had convinced myself that I was taking too much allergy medication (and almost sent myself into a panic attack), but Dr. assures me I can take the recommended dosage every day, and everything should be just fine. And really, whats the point in suffering?
He also told me that this is now the part of the pregnancy where you start to get really huge. The uterus grows upwards of 1 centimeter every week. HA! Great - just what I was looking forward to! As if I wasn't feeling huge enough already! I gained about 4.5 pounds since last appointment, for a grand total of around 7 ish or so. Not too bad, but still difficult to get used to.
Of course, driving by all the half naked people on the beach on the way home didn't help things, either. I came to the realization that I will probably be over the 200 pound mark at the end of this pregnancy, which will put me at 50 pounds gained since Pat & I got together in 2005. *sigh* That didn't make me feel very good at all - even if this is all for a good cause. So I've been in a funk for most of the evening. I'm a super lucky girl though - because my most favorite amazing man did ALL the laundry (washed, dried and put away!), changed the sheets, cleaned up cat barf, vacuumed the rugs and let me soak for 2 hours in the bathtub.....all without making me feel one iota guilty (although I did - for a minute). I'm not sure if he knows how amazing he is, and what a blessing it is to have him in my life!
OK, enough of that - here's the good stuff! The tech took at least 100 photos of our blob-turned-baby O'Brien (who, apparently loves vanilla ice cream because I just had a little bit and he's all topsy turvy kung foo fighting in my belly right now) and here are a few of the ones for you to see! Keep in mind, I'm using "he" here, but I have no idea.....I just seem to think its a boy.
Here's baby looking down, legs are curled up on the left of the pic - you can also see the spine pretty clearly - and a little black blob that is his bladder.
He's looking at us! You can see his eye socket pretty clearly, and make out the chin (Pat says he can see the other eyeball area, nose and mouth, but I think he's full of poo). Pat says he kind of looks like an elf - I'm thinking more like an alien. Potato - potahto
OOOOHHHHH! Look at the cute tootsies!
One arm covering his face......"Please folks, no more photographs, I'm spent! Where's my assistant! I need a spritzer!" One arm was always on his head, and the other was down by his butt. I figured he was itching it or something. Either that or playing with himself. One time we got a shot of his arm all by itself.....he was flexing I think.....saying "Yup - here you go - two tickets to the Gun Show!".
Awwww - all suckin' his thumb and stuff! What an adorable little arm! And a fabulous profile, if I do say so myself :)
Tis all for now! Hope you enjoyed the pics! It was pretty cool for us to see them too :)
The visit with Dr. Kelsey went Okie doke too......just talk about sciatic nerve issues, sex, and allergy management. On our trip to Tucson I had convinced myself that I was taking too much allergy medication (and almost sent myself into a panic attack), but Dr. assures me I can take the recommended dosage every day, and everything should be just fine. And really, whats the point in suffering?
He also told me that this is now the part of the pregnancy where you start to get really huge. The uterus grows upwards of 1 centimeter every week. HA! Great - just what I was looking forward to! As if I wasn't feeling huge enough already! I gained about 4.5 pounds since last appointment, for a grand total of around 7 ish or so. Not too bad, but still difficult to get used to.
Of course, driving by all the half naked people on the beach on the way home didn't help things, either. I came to the realization that I will probably be over the 200 pound mark at the end of this pregnancy, which will put me at 50 pounds gained since Pat & I got together in 2005. *sigh* That didn't make me feel very good at all - even if this is all for a good cause. So I've been in a funk for most of the evening. I'm a super lucky girl though - because my most favorite amazing man did ALL the laundry (washed, dried and put away!), changed the sheets, cleaned up cat barf, vacuumed the rugs and let me soak for 2 hours in the bathtub.....all without making me feel one iota guilty (although I did - for a minute). I'm not sure if he knows how amazing he is, and what a blessing it is to have him in my life!
OK, enough of that - here's the good stuff! The tech took at least 100 photos of our blob-turned-baby O'Brien (who, apparently loves vanilla ice cream because I just had a little bit and he's all topsy turvy kung foo fighting in my belly right now) and here are a few of the ones for you to see! Keep in mind, I'm using "he" here, but I have no idea.....I just seem to think its a boy.
Here's baby looking down, legs are curled up on the left of the pic - you can also see the spine pretty clearly - and a little black blob that is his bladder.
He's looking at us! You can see his eye socket pretty clearly, and make out the chin (Pat says he can see the other eyeball area, nose and mouth, but I think he's full of poo). Pat says he kind of looks like an elf - I'm thinking more like an alien. Potato - potahto
OOOOHHHHH! Look at the cute tootsies!
One arm covering his face......"Please folks, no more photographs, I'm spent! Where's my assistant! I need a spritzer!" One arm was always on his head, and the other was down by his butt. I figured he was itching it or something. Either that or playing with himself. One time we got a shot of his arm all by itself.....he was flexing I think.....saying "Yup - here you go - two tickets to the Gun Show!".
Awwww - all suckin' his thumb and stuff! What an adorable little arm! And a fabulous profile, if I do say so myself :)
Tis all for now! Hope you enjoyed the pics! It was pretty cool for us to see them too :)
Monday, May 7, 2007
Travel et all.
Traveling while being pregnant hasn't been as horrific as I anticipated. As long as I keep hydrated and move my legs around a bit, I don't get too uncomfortable. I did get a birds eye view of parenthood on our flight home from San Diego though. There was a couple in front of us with their young son - about 3 or 4 years old. He ralphed ALL over the place about a half an hour into the flight. Surprisingly, I didn't get grossed out....I was just trying to help by offering more barf bags and mints for the little dude. I felt so bad!
I also did very well while we were at Sea World and the Zoo - I didn't get too tired....although I've been having some serious issues with my sciatic nerve in my butt/hip/leg. Not much fun. Just trying to do lots of stretches and hot compresses to alleviate the pain.
Mr/Ms Blob is very active in my belly, but still no dice on feeling it from the outside!
Also, over dinner one night I think we just decided to change our names we had picked out. Not gonna spill the beans though - just in case we change our minds again :) I love these new ones though!
Got some allergy meds which are making me MUCH more less congested! But, last night I was up ALL stinkin' night.....so I'll have to not take them so late next time. At least I could breathe though!
Next appointment is May 14 - after we get back from Tuscon! I'll let you know how it all goes!
I also did very well while we were at Sea World and the Zoo - I didn't get too tired....although I've been having some serious issues with my sciatic nerve in my butt/hip/leg. Not much fun. Just trying to do lots of stretches and hot compresses to alleviate the pain.
Mr/Ms Blob is very active in my belly, but still no dice on feeling it from the outside!
Also, over dinner one night I think we just decided to change our names we had picked out. Not gonna spill the beans though - just in case we change our minds again :) I love these new ones though!
Got some allergy meds which are making me MUCH more less congested! But, last night I was up ALL stinkin' night.....so I'll have to not take them so late next time. At least I could breathe though!
Next appointment is May 14 - after we get back from Tuscon! I'll let you know how it all goes!
Wednesday, April 25, 2007
We have LIFT OFF
I've been waiting and waiting to actually feel some baby movements as of late. I'll feel a flutter or two, THINK its the baby, then talk myself out of it like its gas or my imagination. This morning, there was NO mistaking the babe movin' about in me! It was like he did a triple sow cow or something - just HUGE! It was so awesome! I was walking and just had to stop because he was really moving about. It was such a strange feeling! HOORAY for moving babies!
I also really noticed my uterus popping out today as I was in the bathtub....the chubby part of my belly lays low, so the part of my belly thats inflated was super noticeable. The uterus is still below the belly button - but its definitely getting closer and closer. I probably should take a picture of my innie before it pops out....mental note.
I also feel like I've FINALLY put the finishing touches on my pregnancy wardrobe. I went to Old Navy yesterday and picked up a couple more T-shirts and tank tops, polo shirts for work, an ADORABLE velour capri running suit, and a pair of shorts. Oh, and some flip flops. I've promised Pat that was the last shopping spree - and the money was well spent....now I can look in my closet and have choices and not be super upset that nothing fits me. And if we can avoid me being upset or crying, it would be best :) Cuz if momma ain't happy, ain't no body happy :)
I also really noticed my uterus popping out today as I was in the bathtub....the chubby part of my belly lays low, so the part of my belly thats inflated was super noticeable. The uterus is still below the belly button - but its definitely getting closer and closer. I probably should take a picture of my innie before it pops out....mental note.
I also feel like I've FINALLY put the finishing touches on my pregnancy wardrobe. I went to Old Navy yesterday and picked up a couple more T-shirts and tank tops, polo shirts for work, an ADORABLE velour capri running suit, and a pair of shorts. Oh, and some flip flops. I've promised Pat that was the last shopping spree - and the money was well spent....now I can look in my closet and have choices and not be super upset that nothing fits me. And if we can avoid me being upset or crying, it would be best :) Cuz if momma ain't happy, ain't no body happy :)
Sunday, April 22, 2007
E.
As in Elephants. Ernie. Equinox.
or.....
as in eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee eeoooooooooooohhhhmygodmyboobsaresohuge.
After suffering in discomfort last week I finally went to a maternity store today and purchased a sublime comfort maternity bra, specially made for huge knockers.
It was a 40 E.
Yes ladies and germs, somehow over the course of the last week I managed to not only outgrow half of my clothes, but also most of my bras - all while only gaining 2 pounds (although it feels like about 50). I started this out as a 38C - or maybe Dish in some styles. The great news (that's dripping with sarcasm folks) - they'll only get bigger.
The whole process was a bit overwhelming for me......it was like some kind of mental block I had about my boobs getting this huge. I've always been a big fan of my jugs - but this is just ridiculous. And I was so sad to get a bra that big. Its like it made the rest of my body all of the sudden ginormous.
The other issue I had was shopping by myself today. It just made me a bit depressed. I almost cried about four times - and I've never been one who was a big tag team shopper or anything....but it just felt so lonely today. My friends are far far away, and my mom and sister are too. So it was just me in the dressing rooms contemplating whether or not I was actually starting to look pregnant, or if it was all an illusion and I was just actually just fat and frumpy with ill fitting clothes.
It really isn't a good place to be when I should be celebrating the fact that my body is an amazing machine creating an actual life inside me right now. I guess its just hard to focus on that when you feel like your body is being morphed into some sideshow parallel universe version of yourself.
*sigh*
Such is the emotional roller coaster of pregnant life.
or.....
as in eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee eeoooooooooooohhhhmygodmyboobsaresohuge.
After suffering in discomfort last week I finally went to a maternity store today and purchased a sublime comfort maternity bra, specially made for huge knockers.
It was a 40 E.
Yes ladies and germs, somehow over the course of the last week I managed to not only outgrow half of my clothes, but also most of my bras - all while only gaining 2 pounds (although it feels like about 50). I started this out as a 38C - or maybe Dish in some styles. The great news (that's dripping with sarcasm folks) - they'll only get bigger.
The whole process was a bit overwhelming for me......it was like some kind of mental block I had about my boobs getting this huge. I've always been a big fan of my jugs - but this is just ridiculous. And I was so sad to get a bra that big. Its like it made the rest of my body all of the sudden ginormous.
The other issue I had was shopping by myself today. It just made me a bit depressed. I almost cried about four times - and I've never been one who was a big tag team shopper or anything....but it just felt so lonely today. My friends are far far away, and my mom and sister are too. So it was just me in the dressing rooms contemplating whether or not I was actually starting to look pregnant, or if it was all an illusion and I was just actually just fat and frumpy with ill fitting clothes.
It really isn't a good place to be when I should be celebrating the fact that my body is an amazing machine creating an actual life inside me right now. I guess its just hard to focus on that when you feel like your body is being morphed into some sideshow parallel universe version of yourself.
*sigh*
Such is the emotional roller coaster of pregnant life.
Thursday, April 19, 2007
OK, last one - seriously.
I just had to make a quick note about how STINKIN tired I am. And sweet lord, my back is killing me.
But, I did make a new purchase today :) I got a body pillow from bed, bath and beyond. It is supurb. I took an hour nap with it today, and I'm excited to go to bed tonight! Sweet dreams to me!
But, I did make a new purchase today :) I got a body pillow from bed, bath and beyond. It is supurb. I took an hour nap with it today, and I'm excited to go to bed tonight! Sweet dreams to me!
Boys are the cutest :)
We recently received news that one of Pat's college buddies recently was blessed with a new baby boy last week! He's so adorable and cuddly, with a big head of black hair! Congratulations to Mike & Gina :)
Along those lines, we also learned that two other friends of Pat's(one from college, another from high school) are expecting in July. One boy, one girl. I guess that means if we want to keep things even, we should expect a girl :) I thought it was rather funny that all four of them were expecting their first child this year.......I guess 30 is the age for new babies!!!
I also have the most adorable reasoning for why Pat would like a baby girl......
OK, let me back up - I would like a boy, Pat is hoping for a girl, but in reality - it absolutely doesn't matter at all. 10 fingers, 10 toes, we'll be ecstatic. Honestly, I think we're "picking" because we're just making it more interesting.... and we're very competitive peoples :) This way, somebody will "win". No, we don't have any money on it....yet.
Anyway, so we were talking about this whole thing, and the real reason why Pat wants a girl comes out. Because little girls are way cuter. And because little girls always love their daddies. HA! That is sooo cute! This big ol' grizzly bear of a man, looking so tough on the exterior, just wants to be wrapped around the finger of a little girl. Seriously - my heart just melted when he said that....I think it made me love him more (if that's even possible).
Along those lines, we also learned that two other friends of Pat's(one from college, another from high school) are expecting in July. One boy, one girl. I guess that means if we want to keep things even, we should expect a girl :) I thought it was rather funny that all four of them were expecting their first child this year.......I guess 30 is the age for new babies!!!
I also have the most adorable reasoning for why Pat would like a baby girl......
OK, let me back up - I would like a boy, Pat is hoping for a girl, but in reality - it absolutely doesn't matter at all. 10 fingers, 10 toes, we'll be ecstatic. Honestly, I think we're "picking" because we're just making it more interesting.... and we're very competitive peoples :) This way, somebody will "win". No, we don't have any money on it....yet.
Anyway, so we were talking about this whole thing, and the real reason why Pat wants a girl comes out. Because little girls are way cuter. And because little girls always love their daddies. HA! That is sooo cute! This big ol' grizzly bear of a man, looking so tough on the exterior, just wants to be wrapped around the finger of a little girl. Seriously - my heart just melted when he said that....I think it made me love him more (if that's even possible).
RAV-EN-OUS!!!!
Seriously - who stole my body and replaced my appetite with that of a Tyrannosaurus Rex??? I'm not exactly sure what has happened over the past few days, but it seems as if I've been eating absolutely everything in sight, and then 5 minutes later I'm hungry again.
This would also explain why I've managed to finally gain weight - a mere 4 pounds - but it feels like a MILLION!!!!! I feel rather, well, Giant. The good news is that my maternity pants fit pretty well. The bad news is that I feel like a sausage officially in my pre-maternity wear. And my back is starting to hurt. And I feel off balance. And that makes me crabby.
I've begun to make a conscious effort to reach for healthier, more filling snacks instead of crap (i.e. candy bars and doritos), which seems to make a difference in the Feedings. I have some cottage cheese, yogurt, sharp cheddar, triscuits, celery, hummus and carrots.....ecetera, ecetera. As long as Pat keeps the chocolate and ice cream out of the house I should be OK.
Oh, I also discovered that if I don't have what I'm craving right away - I actually DO NOT pass out and die. Amazing, isn't it?
This would also explain why I've managed to finally gain weight - a mere 4 pounds - but it feels like a MILLION!!!!! I feel rather, well, Giant. The good news is that my maternity pants fit pretty well. The bad news is that I feel like a sausage officially in my pre-maternity wear. And my back is starting to hurt. And I feel off balance. And that makes me crabby.
I've begun to make a conscious effort to reach for healthier, more filling snacks instead of crap (i.e. candy bars and doritos), which seems to make a difference in the Feedings. I have some cottage cheese, yogurt, sharp cheddar, triscuits, celery, hummus and carrots.....ecetera, ecetera. As long as Pat keeps the chocolate and ice cream out of the house I should be OK.
Oh, I also discovered that if I don't have what I'm craving right away - I actually DO NOT pass out and die. Amazing, isn't it?
Saturday, April 14, 2007
A-OK!
Pat and I went to the quickest OB appointment ever on Friday, and everything looks A-OK :) The doc stuck the dopplar on my belly, and we were able to hear our little blob's heartbeat right away....it was SUCH a great feeling! I didn't actually believe it at first, until the doc told me to take my own pulse and notice the difference in beats. Sure nuff, baby O'Brien was at around 150 bpm and mine was way way lower.
No real major discussions - here's a bit of what we discussed:
Weight: I still haven't gained any weight, but there wasn't much talk about that (its not that big of a deal yet).
Golf: I was worried that all the twisting motions wouldn't be too good for baby. But no worries! Since everything has been healthy so far, there aren't any restrictions. He did warn me that rarely does pregnancy help improve someone's game, so don't expect to be getting better anytime soon :)
Sex: After sex and/or an orgasm I get slight cramping, and although I've read in a million different places that its relatively normal, I just wanted to mention it to him so he was aware. Yes, it is very normal, and now he is aware.
Genetic Testing Results: I wanted to make sure he got the results of the testing. He did, and he mentioned there was a note that some of the results showed I had a potential risk for some fetal development issues (re: slow growth rate and such). But he's not worried about it - it might just mean a couple extra ultrasounds later on to make sure things are going well. Also, I had some more blood drawn to check for other potential abnormalities. Despite the hypochondriac that I normally am - I haven't worried one bit about the health of this bean. I'm definitely not going to worry about "potential" issues. Thats just silly.
The BIG Ultrasound: We scheduled it for May 16. This is the big ultrasound where they take a good look at the little dude, and usually determine the sex. Since we're not finding out the sex, it will be slightly less climactic.......but its always good times to see our little creation up on the screen. And, if we don't want to know the sex, then they don't tell the doctor either. I thought that was kind of funny.
Anyway, thats all the news for now :) Its good to know things are moving along as planned!
No real major discussions - here's a bit of what we discussed:
Weight: I still haven't gained any weight, but there wasn't much talk about that (its not that big of a deal yet).
Golf: I was worried that all the twisting motions wouldn't be too good for baby. But no worries! Since everything has been healthy so far, there aren't any restrictions. He did warn me that rarely does pregnancy help improve someone's game, so don't expect to be getting better anytime soon :)
Sex: After sex and/or an orgasm I get slight cramping, and although I've read in a million different places that its relatively normal, I just wanted to mention it to him so he was aware. Yes, it is very normal, and now he is aware.
Genetic Testing Results: I wanted to make sure he got the results of the testing. He did, and he mentioned there was a note that some of the results showed I had a potential risk for some fetal development issues (re: slow growth rate and such). But he's not worried about it - it might just mean a couple extra ultrasounds later on to make sure things are going well. Also, I had some more blood drawn to check for other potential abnormalities. Despite the hypochondriac that I normally am - I haven't worried one bit about the health of this bean. I'm definitely not going to worry about "potential" issues. Thats just silly.
The BIG Ultrasound: We scheduled it for May 16. This is the big ultrasound where they take a good look at the little dude, and usually determine the sex. Since we're not finding out the sex, it will be slightly less climactic.......but its always good times to see our little creation up on the screen. And, if we don't want to know the sex, then they don't tell the doctor either. I thought that was kind of funny.
Anyway, thats all the news for now :) Its good to know things are moving along as planned!
Wednesday, April 11, 2007
UGH
I wish my clothes would fit me already! I'm officially in between - my pants don't want to button and my preggo clothes are still too big. UGH. It is sooo frustrating!!!!
I'm wanting to bad to feel some baby squirms inside me right now!!! I mentioned I thought I felt some a few days ago - but not much since then. Every night I end up falling asleep with my hands on my tummy, hoping I'll be able to feel something, but no such luck. I actually had a dream where I could REALLY feel it - but I'm pretty sure that was just my vivid imagination.....
Speaking of dreams, I've been told, by many a resource, that you are supposed to be subject to all these crazy wild sex dreams while you're pregnant. I haven't "gotten lucky" so to speak in my dreams so far, but the dreams I have had have been HELLA vivid and VERY very strange.
I've also been itching to go register for baby stuff. Pat tells me no. Dammitallanyway! We'll probably do it sometime next month after the 20 week check up - all I know for sure is that we won't be finding out the sex of the baby, so most of the stuff we register for will be neutral, and I know we'll be registering at BabiesRUs and Target. I actually already started the registries online, but don't have much added yet.
The big decision - the "theme" has already been decided. Its going to be FISHIES all the way! I've got a cute ocean friends theme picked out.
You could argue that its more boy-ee than girlie.....but since I'm a girl and I love fishies I think that qualifies it as girlie too. Our nursery/office/guest room is already painted blue anyway, so the ocean theme will fit well. And, lets be honest folks, the baby doesn't give a rats ass what "theme" they have - its all for the parents anyway, right?
I have an OB appointment on Friday morning - so I'll be posting shortly after that for any new news.
I'm wanting to bad to feel some baby squirms inside me right now!!! I mentioned I thought I felt some a few days ago - but not much since then. Every night I end up falling asleep with my hands on my tummy, hoping I'll be able to feel something, but no such luck. I actually had a dream where I could REALLY feel it - but I'm pretty sure that was just my vivid imagination.....
Speaking of dreams, I've been told, by many a resource, that you are supposed to be subject to all these crazy wild sex dreams while you're pregnant. I haven't "gotten lucky" so to speak in my dreams so far, but the dreams I have had have been HELLA vivid and VERY very strange.
I've also been itching to go register for baby stuff. Pat tells me no. Dammitallanyway! We'll probably do it sometime next month after the 20 week check up - all I know for sure is that we won't be finding out the sex of the baby, so most of the stuff we register for will be neutral, and I know we'll be registering at BabiesRUs and Target. I actually already started the registries online, but don't have much added yet.
The big decision - the "theme" has already been decided. Its going to be FISHIES all the way! I've got a cute ocean friends theme picked out.
You could argue that its more boy-ee than girlie.....but since I'm a girl and I love fishies I think that qualifies it as girlie too. Our nursery/office/guest room is already painted blue anyway, so the ocean theme will fit well. And, lets be honest folks, the baby doesn't give a rats ass what "theme" they have - its all for the parents anyway, right?
I have an OB appointment on Friday morning - so I'll be posting shortly after that for any new news.
Monday, April 9, 2007
Hormones A Go Go
Man, I thought I remembered reading somewhere that the 2nd trimester is supposed to be "The Feel Good" trimester. All the hormones are supposed to be leveling off, and you're supposed to get all this so called energy back to take on the world.
Man, not the case with me. I'm just as tired as ever, and my hormones are about 20 times worse than before. The MOOD SWINGS, I tell you, are driving me crazy - and I'm sure they're maddening Pat even more so. The worst part of it all is that I have no control over them - I know whatever I might be feeling at any given time is unreasonable and ridiculous, but yet I can't control it. It really stinks.
Last night, I think Pat and I had an argument about brownies - home made from scratch vs. the microwave singe serving ones.....I'm not exactly sure how it happened, but I ended up getting angry and moving to the guest bedroom to sleep. Pat tried to get me back to bed, but I wasn't moving at all. Turned out to be a good decision, because the guest bedroom mattress is soooo much firmer and more comfy than our big poofy bed. We need a new one. Stat.
Anyway, he came back about 1:30AM and woke me up, which made me even more mad - but I came back to our bed anyway. Then the cats decided to be all crazy and running around full speed, so I was up again to lock them out of the bedroom so I could try to SLEEP. I was sooo crabby when I woke up today! And basically decided to blame it all on Pat...so I was a SUPER huge bitch for most of the morning.
I tell you what though - when Pat decides he's ready to make nice, its nearly impossible to resist him. Those big brown eyes, super soft kissies on my cheeks and uber cuddly snuggles and hugs....it takes serious willpower (read: Stubborness) to keep on being mad, and I'm usually pretty good at it. I finally broke down by noon though. He's just too cute!!
So the moral of the story? Pregnant women are unreasonable, and don't make any sense. So don't try to understand them.
Man, not the case with me. I'm just as tired as ever, and my hormones are about 20 times worse than before. The MOOD SWINGS, I tell you, are driving me crazy - and I'm sure they're maddening Pat even more so. The worst part of it all is that I have no control over them - I know whatever I might be feeling at any given time is unreasonable and ridiculous, but yet I can't control it. It really stinks.
Last night, I think Pat and I had an argument about brownies - home made from scratch vs. the microwave singe serving ones.....I'm not exactly sure how it happened, but I ended up getting angry and moving to the guest bedroom to sleep. Pat tried to get me back to bed, but I wasn't moving at all. Turned out to be a good decision, because the guest bedroom mattress is soooo much firmer and more comfy than our big poofy bed. We need a new one. Stat.
Anyway, he came back about 1:30AM and woke me up, which made me even more mad - but I came back to our bed anyway. Then the cats decided to be all crazy and running around full speed, so I was up again to lock them out of the bedroom so I could try to SLEEP. I was sooo crabby when I woke up today! And basically decided to blame it all on Pat...so I was a SUPER huge bitch for most of the morning.
I tell you what though - when Pat decides he's ready to make nice, its nearly impossible to resist him. Those big brown eyes, super soft kissies on my cheeks and uber cuddly snuggles and hugs....it takes serious willpower (read: Stubborness) to keep on being mad, and I'm usually pretty good at it. I finally broke down by noon though. He's just too cute!!
So the moral of the story? Pregnant women are unreasonable, and don't make any sense. So don't try to understand them.
Wednesday, April 4, 2007
Flutters? Gas? Baby?
I think I felt the baby today.....I'm not sure though. I suppose it could have been gas.....but I haven't been very farty or anything, so I'm guessing it wasn't :) So hip hip hooray for baby movements!
I'm also slowly but surely outgrowing my clothes. A few pants that I have need to be unbuttoned - especially in the afternoon!
Other than that - no real new baby news to report.....just business as usual :) I have an appointment next week, so I'm sure there will be more news then!
I'm also slowly but surely outgrowing my clothes. A few pants that I have need to be unbuttoned - especially in the afternoon!
Other than that - no real new baby news to report.....just business as usual :) I have an appointment next week, so I'm sure there will be more news then!
Wednesday, March 28, 2007
We HAVE showage peeps!
Of course, a week before the wedding, baby O'Brien decides to make his debut by making my belly poke out a bit. Its not much, but noticable, and enough to make my dress just a little uncomfortable! I'm sure I'll be able to make it through the day though :)
Also just in time for the wedding, increased urination. Thats super fun. I feel like I'm in the john every five minutes after I drink water. And if I don't drink water, I swell up like a balloon, which is also very fun.
There was one of my pregnancy tickers that said "Mommy's uterus is the size of a grapefruit, which is exactly what she'd like to throw at Daddy right about now".....I think it was around week 8 or so.......I didn't really understand it until now. There have been a handful of times where I've just snapped at Pat for no reason, or gotten angry over the silliest little things. Luckily though - he's handled it like a champ :) He's a good man, that Pat O'Brien!
I've been so lucky to not have any of these symptoms of pregnancy, and I get them all right before I get hitched.....*sigh* Couldn't it just have waited one more week???
OH, and just in case you're wondering, my belly is still hairy. So much so, in fact, that it actually had some static electricity goin on yesterday. I was adjusting my preggo band pants, and saw all the little hairs sticking straight out. Its so strange.
Also just in time for the wedding, increased urination. Thats super fun. I feel like I'm in the john every five minutes after I drink water. And if I don't drink water, I swell up like a balloon, which is also very fun.
There was one of my pregnancy tickers that said "Mommy's uterus is the size of a grapefruit, which is exactly what she'd like to throw at Daddy right about now".....I think it was around week 8 or so.......I didn't really understand it until now. There have been a handful of times where I've just snapped at Pat for no reason, or gotten angry over the silliest little things. Luckily though - he's handled it like a champ :) He's a good man, that Pat O'Brien!
I've been so lucky to not have any of these symptoms of pregnancy, and I get them all right before I get hitched.....*sigh* Couldn't it just have waited one more week???
OH, and just in case you're wondering, my belly is still hairy. So much so, in fact, that it actually had some static electricity goin on yesterday. I was adjusting my preggo band pants, and saw all the little hairs sticking straight out. Its so strange.
Wednesday, March 21, 2007
ACK!
I just officially shared it with the world!
BLOG ANNOUNCEMENT
We've told immediate friends and family, and said its OK to spread the news, but this is the first time we're officially saying it out loud - shouting from the rooftops - WE'RE GONNA HAVE A BABY!!!!!!!!
It feels so strange! I'm actually shaking right now!!!! Somehow - it makes it all more real - more exciting! *Whew* and I'm relieved somewhat as well. It just feels sooooo goooooood!
BLOG ANNOUNCEMENT
We've told immediate friends and family, and said its OK to spread the news, but this is the first time we're officially saying it out loud - shouting from the rooftops - WE'RE GONNA HAVE A BABY!!!!!!!!
It feels so strange! I'm actually shaking right now!!!! Somehow - it makes it all more real - more exciting! *Whew* and I'm relieved somewhat as well. It just feels sooooo goooooood!
Hooray :) Boo Hiss :(
::::: HOORAY! :::::
My headaches I've been complaining about for the past couple of weeks (as well as the jaw pain) have finally been resolved. I have a severly strained jaw muscle, with a big Charlie Horse in it! I can't take all sorts of muscle relaxers being all pregnant and stuff, but the dentist did do some massages and show me some stretches to do at home. He's a cool dude, and got me in right away. I think Dr. Padleckas rules!
::::: HOORAY! :::::
I found a bathing suit!!! SUPER cute at Target today. Its a two piece tankini type thing, with brown bottoms with this cute cinchy ties at the sides, and a funky brown/teal tie dye thing going on up top. Fits great now, but definitely LOTS of room to grow too. The great thing is that it still looks good now, even with room to grow later. I'm excited about it!
::::: boo hiss :::::
I still have another cute bathing suit on order from motherhood. Hopefully that one fits too, so I don't have to return it. A girl should always have at least two swimsuits, right?
::::: HOORAY! :::::
I told all the peeps in my office yesterday that I'm pregnant! It felt good to get it out - even better because I LOVE the attention, and I love seeing people genuinely happy and excited that Pat & I are going to be parents :) Such a great feeling! One of the secretaries, Lorraine, kept calling me Mama - I totally was soaking it up!
::::: boo hiss :::::
The big boss - (basically my boss's boss's boss - the guy who was in charge of making sure I got back to the US and sent me to Mexico) was less than enthused about the whole thing. It was kind of like a "Oh great, she just gets back and gets knocked up - another one bites the dust". First of all - pppppttttthhhhhhh - second of all, I'm not planning on just giving up this great job that I have.....and pppppptttttthhhhhh for thinking people can't be great mothers and great employees. UGH. It just irks me. And, if I wanted to stay home and be a mom, thats my prerogative - its my job to take care of my personal life first, then business second. So if I decided to leave (which I've pretty much decided I won't) and it screws the business - than I guess I'm just stickin' it to THE MAN who has screwed all those other employees before. Its not personal. Just business.
::::: HOORAY! :::::
I'm probably going to officially tell the rest of the world today - if I ever get around to announcing it on my other blog. We'll see what's up!
My headaches I've been complaining about for the past couple of weeks (as well as the jaw pain) have finally been resolved. I have a severly strained jaw muscle, with a big Charlie Horse in it! I can't take all sorts of muscle relaxers being all pregnant and stuff, but the dentist did do some massages and show me some stretches to do at home. He's a cool dude, and got me in right away. I think Dr. Padleckas rules!
::::: HOORAY! :::::
I found a bathing suit!!! SUPER cute at Target today. Its a two piece tankini type thing, with brown bottoms with this cute cinchy ties at the sides, and a funky brown/teal tie dye thing going on up top. Fits great now, but definitely LOTS of room to grow too. The great thing is that it still looks good now, even with room to grow later. I'm excited about it!
::::: boo hiss :::::
I still have another cute bathing suit on order from motherhood. Hopefully that one fits too, so I don't have to return it. A girl should always have at least two swimsuits, right?
::::: HOORAY! :::::
I told all the peeps in my office yesterday that I'm pregnant! It felt good to get it out - even better because I LOVE the attention, and I love seeing people genuinely happy and excited that Pat & I are going to be parents :) Such a great feeling! One of the secretaries, Lorraine, kept calling me Mama - I totally was soaking it up!
::::: boo hiss :::::
The big boss - (basically my boss's boss's boss - the guy who was in charge of making sure I got back to the US and sent me to Mexico) was less than enthused about the whole thing. It was kind of like a "Oh great, she just gets back and gets knocked up - another one bites the dust". First of all - pppppttttthhhhhhh - second of all, I'm not planning on just giving up this great job that I have.....and pppppptttttthhhhhh for thinking people can't be great mothers and great employees. UGH. It just irks me. And, if I wanted to stay home and be a mom, thats my prerogative - its my job to take care of my personal life first, then business second. So if I decided to leave (which I've pretty much decided I won't) and it screws the business - than I guess I'm just stickin' it to THE MAN who has screwed all those other employees before. Its not personal. Just business.
::::: HOORAY! :::::
I'm probably going to officially tell the rest of the world today - if I ever get around to announcing it on my other blog. We'll see what's up!
Monday, March 19, 2007
And LAME-O was his NAME-O
Wow man, I didn't think St. Patrick's Day would bother me so much. I feel kind of left out now that I am not drinking at all. Now, don't get me wrong people, I'm not a drunk, but I like a beer as much as the next girl....and I guess since I "can't" have one - the more I want one, you know?
It hasn't been a big deal. Pat and I have been out plenty of times and I've stuck to water, or cranberry and soda with a lime twist. Now and again I'll even partake in an O'Douls or other such non-alcoholic beer. But, sometimes, you just want the real thing, you know? At least I finally found a reason for non-alcoholic beer. I always thought "What's The Point?!". There are some pretty tasty choices out there, too! In one motherhood magazine that I picked up, there was actually a summary of taste testing various brands of feaux beer - now THAT's the kind of pregnant stuff I LOVE to see in a magazine - something that is really pertanent to me and my life, and not something about how anything non-organic is going to make your child grow a third eye en utero.
But this weekend, there was a lot of drinking and carrying on, and there I was, with my green O'Douls or water or whatever, trying so hard to have fun, but not really being into it all. I even had to take a couple naps. I just felt, overall, LAME-O. In fact, I was singing Carli Simon's "You're So Vain" but substituting Lame for Vain at one point on Sunday morning. I'm not sure why....I've gone through periods in my life before where I haven't drank, but maybe because its tied so much into the O'Brien family culture it keeps me feeling left out. Its totally self implemented - no one at any point in the weekend made me feel bad about it (I mean, they all KNOW I'm pregant for pete's sake!). My almost sister in law Kristen and I talked about how she felt the same way when she was carrying each of her three kids. I guess it just comes with the territory.
Funny thing - we were at a party Friday night, and our friend's dad is a retired OB/GYN (you know, the kind of town doctor where people introduce themselves and say "Dr. Gallagher! You delivered me and my 7 brothers!"). Anyway, he said "aw honey - that's all blarney. My wife drank a Manhattan three times a week when she was pregnant with all 8 of our kids. Have a real beer if you'd like." Ok, so maybe I was exaggerating with the blarney part (although it was St. Patrick's Day weekend) - but he did say that! Ah - I love old people. They are so cute!
It hasn't been a big deal. Pat and I have been out plenty of times and I've stuck to water, or cranberry and soda with a lime twist. Now and again I'll even partake in an O'Douls or other such non-alcoholic beer. But, sometimes, you just want the real thing, you know? At least I finally found a reason for non-alcoholic beer. I always thought "What's The Point?!". There are some pretty tasty choices out there, too! In one motherhood magazine that I picked up, there was actually a summary of taste testing various brands of feaux beer - now THAT's the kind of pregnant stuff I LOVE to see in a magazine - something that is really pertanent to me and my life, and not something about how anything non-organic is going to make your child grow a third eye en utero.
But this weekend, there was a lot of drinking and carrying on, and there I was, with my green O'Douls or water or whatever, trying so hard to have fun, but not really being into it all. I even had to take a couple naps. I just felt, overall, LAME-O. In fact, I was singing Carli Simon's "You're So Vain" but substituting Lame for Vain at one point on Sunday morning. I'm not sure why....I've gone through periods in my life before where I haven't drank, but maybe because its tied so much into the O'Brien family culture it keeps me feeling left out. Its totally self implemented - no one at any point in the weekend made me feel bad about it (I mean, they all KNOW I'm pregant for pete's sake!). My almost sister in law Kristen and I talked about how she felt the same way when she was carrying each of her three kids. I guess it just comes with the territory.
Funny thing - we were at a party Friday night, and our friend's dad is a retired OB/GYN (you know, the kind of town doctor where people introduce themselves and say "Dr. Gallagher! You delivered me and my 7 brothers!"). Anyway, he said "aw honey - that's all blarney. My wife drank a Manhattan three times a week when she was pregnant with all 8 of our kids. Have a real beer if you'd like." Ok, so maybe I was exaggerating with the blarney part (although it was St. Patrick's Day weekend) - but he did say that! Ah - I love old people. They are so cute!
Thursday, March 15, 2007
ugh.
Still suffering from these stinkin' headaches. I've decided its probably due to allergies / sinus issues. I'm taking some sudafed....but I'm also going to go to the dentist sometime next week to see if my bite plate needs to be adjusted, because I'm having some tension in my ear/throat/jaw as well.
Appointment went well yesterday, except that I had to wait FOR.EV.ER for the doc. I had a chick doc instead of Dr. Kelsey - because he was on vacation until next week...and I didn't want to wait that long. She was OK - kind of rushed - but OK.
She listened for the heartbeat with the dopplar thingy (it kind of looks like a mouse, which they move around on the belly, attached to a speaker) on my belly, but couldn't find it :( so we went and did a quickie abdominal ultrasound just to make sure everything was OK. It was :) There was little blob O'Brien squirming about on the screen, with a healthy heartbeat and all. It was so stinking ADORABLE!!!! Little feet kicking, arms and hands touching its face! HA! A real baby!
I'll get another ultrasound tomorrow - its part of the 1st trimester screening. They use a high resolution ultrasound and take measurements - and based on that they can tell you whats "normal" and what might be indicative of genetic abnormalities. I guess the high res ultrasound is cool though - much nicer than normal ones in doctor offices.
Its a bit of a bummer though because Pat can't be with me to see the ultrasound. He's got a pretty important meeting - and we couldn't reschedule the appointment cuz they were all booked up. Oh well - I'll be OK I'm sure. I might try taking a movie with my cell phone so he can see the baby moving about though. Its quite an improvement from the first ultrasound we had!
Appointment went well yesterday, except that I had to wait FOR.EV.ER for the doc. I had a chick doc instead of Dr. Kelsey - because he was on vacation until next week...and I didn't want to wait that long. She was OK - kind of rushed - but OK.
She listened for the heartbeat with the dopplar thingy (it kind of looks like a mouse, which they move around on the belly, attached to a speaker) on my belly, but couldn't find it :( so we went and did a quickie abdominal ultrasound just to make sure everything was OK. It was :) There was little blob O'Brien squirming about on the screen, with a healthy heartbeat and all. It was so stinking ADORABLE!!!! Little feet kicking, arms and hands touching its face! HA! A real baby!
I'll get another ultrasound tomorrow - its part of the 1st trimester screening. They use a high resolution ultrasound and take measurements - and based on that they can tell you whats "normal" and what might be indicative of genetic abnormalities. I guess the high res ultrasound is cool though - much nicer than normal ones in doctor offices.
Its a bit of a bummer though because Pat can't be with me to see the ultrasound. He's got a pretty important meeting - and we couldn't reschedule the appointment cuz they were all booked up. Oh well - I'll be OK I'm sure. I might try taking a movie with my cell phone so he can see the baby moving about though. Its quite an improvement from the first ultrasound we had!
Monday, March 12, 2007
Swelling stinks and other musings
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Up til now I haven't really gained much of any weight at all, which is really really good I think. But about this time, around 12 weeks or so, most of the experts say that you should be starting to gain about a pound a week. I didn't think this would be a big deal, but I'm up a pound this morning and I'm not sure how I feel about it. Good for baby, I suppose, but bad for me. My goal, overall, is not to gain more than 20 pounds or so. Doc agreed that was probably a good number. General guideline for a single baby pregnancy is 25 - 35 pounds, but since there is a little more of me to love to start out with, being on the low end of that number is a good thing. Besides, if I only gain 20 pounds, that keeps me below 200 pounds. I think if I ever went above that number I might flip out - it would be very bad emotionally (not to mention physically) for me.
:::::::::::::::::: SWELLING ::::::::::::::::::
Aside from the weight gain, the past couple of days I have begun to swell. Icky. That isn't fun at all. My fingers and toes are beginning to look like sausages. I'm not sure why that is - I guess it would be because I have been a water slacker as of late. So, I'm going to concentrate on hitting that 64 oz mark each day. Hopefully that will help.
:::::::::::::::::: ATTIRE ::::::::::::::::::
I purchased a Bella Band last week, and it arrived Friday. Its a tube-top looking thing that you put over your belly and the top of your pants to hold them up - so I can still wear my regular jeans and pants with the top button unbuttoned, and also wear my maternity stuff that is still a bit too big. Great invention - for sure! Like I said, I haven't gained much weight, but the bloat factor and body changing is definitely making my pants not fit quite right. This thing is fabulous!
I also ordered a bathing suit and some preggo shorts - I'll definitely be needing those when we go to Tucson in May for Pat's mother's College Graduation. I hope it fits well! I'll find out this week when it gets here!
:::::::::::::::::: HEADACHES ::::::::::::::::::
I've always been a sufferer of migranes, and for the most part, since the inception of this pregnancy, they have occured less frequently than normal. I would get them before at least 3 days a month, and these past three months I think I've had less than 3 total. That is, until Friday. It started as a dull roar, then got so bad that I finally had to resort to taking tylenol. Which normally doesn't help at all. I've always taken Excederine for my headaches, its the only thing that really packs a punch and takes them away. Anyway, Asprin for preggos is a big no no, so I stuck with the lightweight stuff.
Well, it stayed with me for three (count em - 3) days. Not full migrane strength the entire time - but Friday night and Saturday afternoon were horrible. It finally went away Sunday morning after I went for a run. So maybe its just my body telling me that I need to get out and move my butt more.
Up til now I haven't really gained much of any weight at all, which is really really good I think. But about this time, around 12 weeks or so, most of the experts say that you should be starting to gain about a pound a week. I didn't think this would be a big deal, but I'm up a pound this morning and I'm not sure how I feel about it. Good for baby, I suppose, but bad for me. My goal, overall, is not to gain more than 20 pounds or so. Doc agreed that was probably a good number. General guideline for a single baby pregnancy is 25 - 35 pounds, but since there is a little more of me to love to start out with, being on the low end of that number is a good thing. Besides, if I only gain 20 pounds, that keeps me below 200 pounds. I think if I ever went above that number I might flip out - it would be very bad emotionally (not to mention physically) for me.
:::::::::::::::::: SWELLING ::::::::::::::::::
Aside from the weight gain, the past couple of days I have begun to swell. Icky. That isn't fun at all. My fingers and toes are beginning to look like sausages. I'm not sure why that is - I guess it would be because I have been a water slacker as of late. So, I'm going to concentrate on hitting that 64 oz mark each day. Hopefully that will help.
:::::::::::::::::: ATTIRE ::::::::::::::::::
I purchased a Bella Band last week, and it arrived Friday. Its a tube-top looking thing that you put over your belly and the top of your pants to hold them up - so I can still wear my regular jeans and pants with the top button unbuttoned, and also wear my maternity stuff that is still a bit too big. Great invention - for sure! Like I said, I haven't gained much weight, but the bloat factor and body changing is definitely making my pants not fit quite right. This thing is fabulous!
I also ordered a bathing suit and some preggo shorts - I'll definitely be needing those when we go to Tucson in May for Pat's mother's College Graduation. I hope it fits well! I'll find out this week when it gets here!
:::::::::::::::::: HEADACHES ::::::::::::::::::
I've always been a sufferer of migranes, and for the most part, since the inception of this pregnancy, they have occured less frequently than normal. I would get them before at least 3 days a month, and these past three months I think I've had less than 3 total. That is, until Friday. It started as a dull roar, then got so bad that I finally had to resort to taking tylenol. Which normally doesn't help at all. I've always taken Excederine for my headaches, its the only thing that really packs a punch and takes them away. Anyway, Asprin for preggos is a big no no, so I stuck with the lightweight stuff.
Well, it stayed with me for three (count em - 3) days. Not full migrane strength the entire time - but Friday night and Saturday afternoon were horrible. It finally went away Sunday morning after I went for a run. So maybe its just my body telling me that I need to get out and move my butt more.
Wednesday, March 7, 2007
Week 11 - 203 days to go!!
Here's what pregnancy.org has to say about this fantastic week #11:
Your fig-size baby is now fully formed — measuring 1 1/2 inches long and weighing in at a quarter of an ounce. His skin is still transparent, allowing many of his blood vessels to show through. Some of his bones are beginning to harden. His fingers and toes have separated, and he may soon be able to open and close his fists. He's already busy kicking and stretching, and his tiny movements are so fluid they look like water ballet. These movements will increase as his body grows and becomes more developed and functional. As your baby's diaphragm develops, he may also start getting the hiccups. Because he's still so small, you won't feel any of his aquatic workouts or intrauterine gulps for another month or so.
And....from BabyGaGa.com:
Your little growing fetus is about the size of an apple this week, getting heavier all the time, and is learning lots of complicated behaviors like the swallowing reflex and coordinated response that allow them to touch their face. You're hopefully starting to experience a lessening of the morning sickness symptoms as the placenta takes over hormone production fully.
Crazy eh? Baby Blob O'Brien is getting bigger by the SECOND :) HA!
My appointment today at the neurologist went well. Apparently the numbness is fairly common occurance, normally attributed to drastic weight gain, trauma to the hips or back, pregnancy, or in my case, for no reason at all. And, its normal for it to worsen a bit because of being pregnant. So I'm not dying (HOORAY!). I'm just supposed to keep exercising and see if it gets any better or worse. However, I have to put an official ix-nay on the unning-ray, because it could make it worse. Not like I've been running much anyway (since its all of -2000 degrees outside). I'll still be doing the 8K for the Shamrock Shuffle - just much slower than everyone else!
So, how have I been feeling you might ask? Well, pretty darn good! I'm approaching the 2nd trimester, and that is pretty exciting, because it means we're 1/3 of the way done! WHOO HOOO! Time is just A FLYING by - its crazy! I'm still maintaining my weight, (down 1 pound overall) which is good, but I should probably start increasing my intake here after my next OB check in (next week). I haven't been eating SUPER healthy, but I have been doing my best to not pig out on junk food :) Despite the non-weight gain and water consumption (I drink at least 32 oz, but aim for 64 per day), I'm starting to feel rather bloated and huge at night. Enough so that I *have* to take my pants off at night and put cool pants on (cool pants = pj pants)...thank goodness for cool pants!
My dad and brother came by yesterday to pick up some things out of storage (I hope you're enjoying your new washer and dryer Mom!) and my dad was - CA-racking me up! He didn't want me to do anything!!! I would climb up to get something off the top shelves and he'd say "Should you be doing that? You should get down" or if I was carrying something he'd say "Are you sure that's not too heavy? You're not supposed to carry anything". Even at lunch I grabbed the tray with our sandwiches on that and he told Keith to carry it for me. It was so stinkin' cute! Maybe Pat should take some tips from Dad on how to take care of me :) I finally had to tell Dad that yes, I'm sure I was OK doing those things and assure him I was just pregnant and not handicapped.....but it was nice for someone to be concerned.
OK - the baby is hungry, so I must eat. There's some leftover pizza calling its name :)
Your fig-size baby is now fully formed — measuring 1 1/2 inches long and weighing in at a quarter of an ounce. His skin is still transparent, allowing many of his blood vessels to show through. Some of his bones are beginning to harden. His fingers and toes have separated, and he may soon be able to open and close his fists. He's already busy kicking and stretching, and his tiny movements are so fluid they look like water ballet. These movements will increase as his body grows and becomes more developed and functional. As your baby's diaphragm develops, he may also start getting the hiccups. Because he's still so small, you won't feel any of his aquatic workouts or intrauterine gulps for another month or so.
And....from BabyGaGa.com:
Your little growing fetus is about the size of an apple this week, getting heavier all the time, and is learning lots of complicated behaviors like the swallowing reflex and coordinated response that allow them to touch their face. You're hopefully starting to experience a lessening of the morning sickness symptoms as the placenta takes over hormone production fully.
Crazy eh? Baby Blob O'Brien is getting bigger by the SECOND :) HA!
My appointment today at the neurologist went well. Apparently the numbness is fairly common occurance, normally attributed to drastic weight gain, trauma to the hips or back, pregnancy, or in my case, for no reason at all. And, its normal for it to worsen a bit because of being pregnant. So I'm not dying (HOORAY!). I'm just supposed to keep exercising and see if it gets any better or worse. However, I have to put an official ix-nay on the unning-ray, because it could make it worse. Not like I've been running much anyway (since its all of -2000 degrees outside). I'll still be doing the 8K for the Shamrock Shuffle - just much slower than everyone else!
So, how have I been feeling you might ask? Well, pretty darn good! I'm approaching the 2nd trimester, and that is pretty exciting, because it means we're 1/3 of the way done! WHOO HOOO! Time is just A FLYING by - its crazy! I'm still maintaining my weight, (down 1 pound overall) which is good, but I should probably start increasing my intake here after my next OB check in (next week). I haven't been eating SUPER healthy, but I have been doing my best to not pig out on junk food :) Despite the non-weight gain and water consumption (I drink at least 32 oz, but aim for 64 per day), I'm starting to feel rather bloated and huge at night. Enough so that I *have* to take my pants off at night and put cool pants on (cool pants = pj pants)...thank goodness for cool pants!
My dad and brother came by yesterday to pick up some things out of storage (I hope you're enjoying your new washer and dryer Mom!) and my dad was - CA-racking me up! He didn't want me to do anything!!! I would climb up to get something off the top shelves and he'd say "Should you be doing that? You should get down" or if I was carrying something he'd say "Are you sure that's not too heavy? You're not supposed to carry anything". Even at lunch I grabbed the tray with our sandwiches on that and he told Keith to carry it for me. It was so stinkin' cute! Maybe Pat should take some tips from Dad on how to take care of me :) I finally had to tell Dad that yes, I'm sure I was OK doing those things and assure him I was just pregnant and not handicapped.....but it was nice for someone to be concerned.
OK - the baby is hungry, so I must eat. There's some leftover pizza calling its name :)
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